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  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:01 PM
    magprob
    Well I am Me and you ain't so when I die I won't be here telling everyone about it. That's why I never did believe it. So, on to the next problem...
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:01 PM
    firmbeliever
    I wonder where Start and shattered are... they will never trust anyone again for a long time I am pretty sure.

    Such Sickos exist, I have heard,but this is the first time I fell for it, hook,line and sinker.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:01 PM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by AKaeTrue
    Maybe there was no real Sarai and Shayla to begin with...

    I kinda wonder if Canada S made up the characters "sarai and Shayla" and decided to kill them off...


    Maybe, you never know. I don't know what to think. I have always trusted everyone on this site, I would trust you all with my life. What should we all think now?
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:02 PM
    magprob
    You would trust ME with your life? Oh, you poor misguide soul. That would be a fate worse than a truck running you over!
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:03 PM
    nicespringgirl
    I never believed that original post either...

    How did her husband get into her account?

    After she passed away? He has time and mood to introduce himself?
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:03 PM
    nauticalstar420
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by magprob
    You would trust ME with your life? Oh, you poor misguide soul. That would be a fate worse than a truck running you over!

    Well thanks for at least making me laugh :p

    All of you guys are my friends, I hope you know that.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:04 PM
    firmbeliever
    I wish I had followed my gut like Erika.

    When I first saw that thread I almost hit RIP button cause I really thought it was a troll.
    But I saw the Sickos name and thought oh she is nice blah blah and I fell for it...
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:05 PM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nauticalstar420
    What should we all think now?

    Hello ns:

    That we can be fooled. That doesn't make us the bad guy. I'd rather be a person who believes his friends. And, I'm not going to change.

    excon
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:07 PM
    magprob
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nauticalstar420
    Well thanks for at least making me laugh :p

    All of you guys are my friends, I hope you know that.

    Life is too valuable to play with. I'm glad I made you laugh and even though I didn't believe her, It really pissed me off too but, I think we should forget it and just be on the look out from now on.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:07 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nicespringgirl
    Teens nowadays...Sigh...

    If they use these brain cells on homework and career, that'd be greater!!

    You know what? I am a bit b1tchy right now. But it's about time you stop with the holier than thou attitude about your education and career. Not all people are like you, even Asians, yet you put on this show as though you are the greatest race on the planet. Get over yourself already!!

    I'm sorry, but this whole thing just got me sooo pissed off I am finally venting. I don't know if I am the only one, but personally I don't care right now. I am tired of you turning every post around to make you look good, to make the guys attracted to you, to make Asians look better than Americans.

    If you are in America, get off your high horse or go back to Asia!! If it weren't for America you would not be where you are right now. But you don't see that, do you?

    Not everyone has the capabilities to be as perfect as you!!
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:09 PM
    GlindaofOz
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by firmbeliever
    I wish I had followed my gut like Erika.

    When I first saw that thread I almost hit RIP button cause I really thought it was a troll.
    But I saw the Sickos name and thought oh she is nice blah blah and I fell for it...

    I felt the same thing. I thought there is no one way this could be true. But it just seemed too cruel. Who would joke about someone's death like that? And Canada and Sarai had both been on for so long and had been so helpful.

    Now I wonder. I felt there was a solid group of people who could be trusted. I guess we can't let something like this shake us too much. I hope that there are no others like this lurking out there
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:09 PM
    magprob
    Damit!
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:11 PM
    firmbeliever
    If any of you are around, you "Sickos", just get off this site,before we get our hands on you.

    Get lost and crawl into whatever hole you crawled out from...
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:11 PM
    tkrussell
    I feel the fool and may not trust anyone here again. I sure hope the prankster and any accomplice or accessory to deceive is severely dealt with in the most possible means available.

    I will stop before my Irish temper flares.

    Lousy punks...
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:20 PM
    firmbeliever
    Are all done with venting...
    I did not sleep last night(not because of this),but I was about to get to bed and just checked in here before hitting the sack.

    And I do not think all this anger is going to let me sleep... I am angry for my friends who were really hurt because of this prank... scarred for life (I hope not).
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:25 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    What's next firmbeleiver really a penticostal preacher ?
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:26 PM
    Treeny
    OMG! I am sickened that any one would even think this would be a funny joke!
    And to add a baby into the sick mix! I am happy that it didn't really happen especially the baby! But I just can't believe how corrupt people are!
    Ya know, I got suspicious when the so called husband was on.
    I was thinking to myself most of the time in a time like this you would be making arrangements, and busy with family and mourning etc.
    GEEZ, Unreal!
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:28 PM
    firmbeliever
    Fr-Chuck,

    Really, could you not think another identity for me... ;)
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:29 PM
    J_9
    Treeny, that is when I got suspicious and started checking it out. Others whom I will not mention, he/she can speak for themselves, had doubts way before then.

    The members have been banned and the IP address will be banned on site.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:32 PM
    ordinaryguy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9
    You know what? I am a bit b1tchy right now. But it's about time you stop with the holier than thou attitude about your education and career. Not all people are like you, even Asians, yet you put on this show as though you are the greatest race on the planet. Get over yourself already!!!!

    Easy, there J... No need to start eating our young just because some fools made fools of us.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:33 PM
    alkalineangel
    I thought it odd from the beginning, I was doing my research checking myspace and Facebook and the obituaries, thinking there is no way it wouldn't make news. I was surprised there were no messages on her website, and then I became even more alarmed at the fact that a husband was on here and then I got accepted as a friend on Facebook... This is exactly why I am so cautious about believing people online. I feel sorry for the people who were really pained by it, I started to think it was real after no evidence otherwise until today... I feel more saddened now by the thought that there is a baby girl out there somewhere being raised by people who think this is funny... whether "sarai" and "shayla" truly exist, no one will know, but out there is a real baby, and she will be influenced by the person who thought this a good idea... I am sickened.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:34 PM
    firmbeliever
    So true Al..
    Sickos looking after an innocent babe.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:35 PM
    J_9
    You are right OG, always the picture of sanity. But I am tired of some always turning the tables to bring attention to themselves. I bow down to your sanity in my time of insanity. I just got tired of this person always turning posts over to get attention to themselves.

    I vented. My rant is over.

    Again, OG, you are the picture of sanity.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:36 PM
    CaptainRich
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon
    Hello ns:

    That we can be fooled. That doesn't make us the bad guy. I'd rather be a person who believes his friends. And, I'm not gonna change.

    excon

    And we wouldn't want you to change... too much. :rolleyes:
    That would make you an "ex-friend" :eek:
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:37 PM
    ordinaryguy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck
    whats next firmbeleiver really a penticostal preacher ?

    This is really disrespectful--completely uncalled for. Shame on you.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:38 PM
    Treeny
    I believed it and was so sad , I even told my husband kids and every one thewhole story showed my daughter picture of her and her baby, my daughter is around the same age she was sad about it to. And then when all of a sudden the husband was on and asking dumb stuff like oh did she talk to a lot of guys on here.
    Yep J9 thatswhen I started doughting it to.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:42 PM
    CaptainRich
    If there's any good to come of it... J posted a link for car seats that I forwarded to my son.

    He listened to me rant and so now he's looking for one to put in the family car...

    So, let's hear it for J_9!! Go Girl! Top shelf! Woo-Hoo!
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:42 PM
    Wondergirl
    I got sucked in like everyone else here and am horrified at this revelation. But why the confession? Guilt? The part would be too hard to play now? And why bother in the first place? To see what everyone would say?

    Like excon said, we saw the best parts of us in the reactions and responses though.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:43 PM
    J_9
    I have to admit, my anger got the best of me. It doesn't happen often, but it does happen. I took it out on NiceSpringGirl, although... NM... Live in America, be an American..

    I have been dealing with this Sarai crap since 3 yesterday (my time) got some sleep, went to school, and came home to deal with it today at 1:30 my time. I have to get up in about 4 hours. I ain't a happy person right now.

    The life of a SuperModerator can really suck sometimes.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:44 PM
    firmbeliever
    And wondergirl,
    We learnt to appreciate life more, even if it was for a day...

    J9,

    We really appreciate all of what the Mods do on this site,makes our work a lot easier.. :)
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:48 PM
    AKaeTrue
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl
    I got sucked in like everyone else here and am horrified at this revelation. But why the confession? Guilt? The part would be too hard to play now? And why bother in the first place? To see what everyone would say?

    Like excon said, we saw the best parts of us in the reactions and responses though.

    That's what I'm left here wondering...
    Was she/they/whoever caught first, or questioned??
    Or did whoever just come out with this post?
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:49 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by AKaeTrue
    Thats what I'm left here wondering...
    Was she/they/whoever caught first, or questioned ???
    or did whoever just come out with this post?

    It is all under review, hun, don't worry your pretty little head. Giggle
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:51 PM
    AKaeTrue
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9
    It is all under review, hun, don't worry your pretty little head. giggle

    Got to love you J!! LOL
    You better get some sleep busy woman!
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:51 PM
    firmbeliever
    Akae,
    So many questions and we will keep second guessing even those we trust on this site.

    Too many lies for me to digest... I am going to sleep.
    G'nite all...
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:52 PM
    J_9
    I'm going there right now. I got to rest. This is too much for me!!

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