I was curious. I have money and I personally own things on my own. Its not like I have never worked. Please don't take what I say the wrong way I completely understand you're point of view and me being less educated than you really isn't the question here. I may have used short hand terms. Domestics. Domestic Relationstions. Im on a cell phone and some times it writes what it wants. Maybe I have come to the wrong place for another point of view or maybe I didn't. I didn't know the family before hand only knew t he man. I used contraception to avoid pregnancy but it failed and Im mot one for abortion but that's my opinion. And you're right I don't need to explain myslef so I guess I will stop. I did get some good points of views, advice and warnings from this site but I didn't expect it to be a battle of views on here. But the family has means of money they are also not by any means poor. I will just leave it at that and walk away. Im sorry to have taken up you're time and confuse or not make sense to you. Again thank you for you're point and I will keep what you have said in mind.