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I answered your question about the SS. Go there in person and speak with them. Other than an attorney you cannot afford, then speak with the SS folks and stop trying to twist everything around. We are here to help you and the only "free" help you can get is the Social Security people but you MUST go IN PERSON. Do not do anything over the phone with them.