I started to read this thread, but stopped when it was obvious that the OP wasn't willing to listen. So, if I repeat anything that's already been said, I apologize.

I do want to point out something. You asked, in the beginning of this thread, if he was seeing someone else. You seemed to be worried about that. Worried that he might be "cheating" on you.

I find that amusing. He's cheating on his wife with you, he's had other girls on the side before you, and you wonder if he's seeing someone else? Duh! Why wouldn't he? Do you think you're so special that he wouldn't cheat on you? He's nothing but a cheater.

You get what you give. When you start screwing around with a married man, and really, that's all your relationship is, sex, and you know he's screwed around before, then do you really expect him to be faithful to you? Has he lied that well? I see through his lies, why can't you?

Bottom line, you are the other woman. You stepped into something you had no right to step into. Yes, he's scum, a pig, but you're no better. When you lie with pigs... well, figure it out.

There are two sides, it works out for some , not for others. This has gone on too far from me just getting an answer to what I asked. Im not saying its going to work at all for me, People just do NOT WANT TO SEE it can WORK OUT OK?? what part of that don't some understand?? A single man is just as likely to cheat as a married one so don't tar all married men with the same brush. If I was seeing a single man all the same advice would apply. AS SOON AS ANYONE MENTIONS MARRIED ITS ALL SO DIFFERENT. Relationships CAN work out whether the person was married or single.

Let us know how it works out for you.