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  • Jun 19, 2007, 12:45 AM
    Krs
    Why would it depend where you're from?
  • Jun 19, 2007, 01:03 AM
    NewMommy2be08
    It depends because the laws differ in different places. (So I've found) after visiting 5 different states already. The laws are sometimes different. I know it's illegal from where I came from. Elsewhere I don't know what age requirements are. But I'm sure it's illegal regardless.
  • Jun 19, 2007, 07:45 PM
    advocate68
    Comment on Megg's post
    Comment was money based
  • Jul 30, 2007, 12:02 PM
    Foxy459459
    Do you know that you could got to Jail if you presue this? Don't do that... Stick with what you have don't take any chances that are going to mess everything up...
  • Jul 30, 2007, 12:12 PM
    GlindaofOz
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by flower81
    How bad is it to fancy a 16 yr old?
    im in my 20's - mid 20's.. and engaged! :(

    It's pretty bad. I'd take a long hard look at these feelings. If you find the thoughts obsessive I would recommend going to a therapist and working out these issues BEFORE walking down the aisle with your fiancé. If you have any inclination towards having sex with children you need to clean that out and tell your fiancé. He needs to know that he may be marrying a pedophile. Maybe I'm harsh but I know I would be pissed to all hell if the person I was marrying turned around and cheated on me with a teenager and then was tried for unlawful sex with a minor. Just my 2 cents
  • Jul 30, 2007, 12:47 PM
    Emland
    It's a bad, bad, bad idea whether you are in the US or UK or anywhere else.

    1. because your age difference

    2. you're ENGAGED

    You might want to do your fiancé a favor and cancel the wedding - you aren't ready.
  • Jul 30, 2007, 01:04 PM
    LearningAsIGo
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by flower81
    Im not going to do anything about it!! But i have been thinking of him sexually!
    Am i sick?

    To think about it, no. You find him attractive and anyone single, engaged, or married can still recognize a person they're attracted to.

    To act upon it, yes. There is nothing in the world that would make acting upon this in any way all right.
  • Jul 30, 2007, 01:07 PM
    Canada_Sweety
    Wellll..... everyone fancies something they can't/shouldn't have. Should you choose to indulge in it, THAT would make it a bad thing. Although, I'm pretty sure that if you so much as hit on him, you could go to jail for statutory rape.
  • Jul 31, 2007, 01:25 PM
    Kellyisawsome
    That's pretty bad dude.

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