:S you guys are right that you were not there and wasn't know what exactly had happened. I removed the post because I thought I am not explaining it well and I might post it tomorrow. As it was little late for me and have to leave. (English is not my first language and I take time sometime to write... )

In our culture we gave money as gift on big occasions. So that is why I gave money : ) . I get Money when I had my babies from my family. I think it just a tradition.

And about my comment, I will try to explain it, I might wrong but I don't think the way I said was rude or something. MY bother in law and my husband was going upstairs to move around some furniture. My brother in law said that there is a cake if you want to eat now, my husband said I will eat it later after moving the furniture, and I added that I will eat now. Could you please give me some, I am very hungry and have headache... I asked her because I was holding the baby...

May be you guys are right... ah any way... If I did something wrong there my husband will point it out. But I ask him and he said he didn't feel anything wrong with what I said or did there.

Really is it that Bad. I am surprised :) well thanks for your comments though.

And the comment I removed I was trying to say that I don't think if some one shares that he/she have headache because of hunger is a complaint, its my responsibility to eat why should I complaint someone for it. Complaints are when someone is responsible and I complaint them you didn't give me lunch. (aah may be I ma thinking too much, every one know what is the complaint I should accept her comments yeah I should accept it oh well may be tomorrow I have to go to pick my baby from day care and removed it.- My mistake!! Sorry! )

I never complaint about their attitude there is so many things that I can talk about . Yes I shared it with my husband that I get hurts when they did that. We never ask them.

Thanks all for your responses!!