My friend an I had a disagreement 8 months ago
So heated that I decided to not see her, To let our
Tempers cool off a bit.. . Here it is 8 months later, She's still with this don't say nothing to me attitude.. . I need a woman to tell me what's going
On, with a person who would hold on to anger that long. And won't let you resolve the matter?

This happened to me once, my friends husband was having an affair and I didn't want to lose her friendship by telling her face to face so I wrote an anonymous letter telling her. She did not know who it was from but she followed the lead and caught him out and she kicked him out.. the end! And we are still friends..