Your Grandparents don't hate you? Why would they? Just because your parents were young when they had you, and your grandparents may have disapproved at the time - it does not mean they hate you?

Your Dad really sounds depressed and like he has lots of issues! - I rewally do empathise with you here, we all would love to help - so please do not feel like you cannot open up; you can tell us anything - we will not judge, and there is no need to feel embarrassed - we just want to help!

2 years ago my dad started to be all mean to me 4 no reason.
He used hit me saying he didn't want me.
I don't speak to him I don't speak 2 anyone.
I finely hit it of with this girl.
My dad was supposed to be working till 9 but he came home early he caught the 2 of us.
That what you want 2 no?

Well sounds like a rough time!

Your dad loves you deep down inside.

He is struggling. He doesn't know how to be a dad.

It is not like i am standing up 4 him or anything like that.

There is no book to how to become or form into a dad.

Try to focus on your goals in life.

Thier maybe more challanges in life.

To tell you the truth that you need to focus on what you want in life.

If you need to talk bout your feelings we, i, are here 4 u.

Hoped i helped!

Peace!

Hi I'm 13 and I have the same problem I live in weymouth my mom is still alive but when my grandma diad my dad became mad at me he said to me "your a waste of life ,you should have ben a blo job"he hates me and I hate going home he's tells me I'm useless I'm nothing it make want to take a kitchen nife to my rist and cut the vane I'm already in therapy,I'm so scared because one time I was mad at my brother and I spared his axe all over his room and he told my grandma (this was 4 years ago)my dad was in the room and he got up and shuved me agenst the wall and picked me up by my hair then grabbed my neck yelled at me wile shaking me rapidly I cryed every night for a month . My dads not vilent has before now he just yells at me I thowt I was the only kid in england please keep in touch with me:(.

That's terrible... Whether your mother is dead (and I am very sorry) he has no right to treat you that way. You're his child he should try really hard to look after you and comfort you. That is ABUSE! I say try to live with another family member or someone close where you are safe. And those who say "My mums dead too" She isn't asking for that.. If your going to say something stupid like that don't say it at all.