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  • Feb 9, 2008, 01:25 AM
    MasuBhat
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by justcurious55
    thats kinda crazy. my "friend" considers a lot of teachers her friends too. once she nearly dragged me to dinner at our english teacher's house...wow was i glad that dinner date never happened lol

    Seems like you'v exprieced some of it why don't you advise her to do smth dan?
  • Feb 9, 2008, 01:26 AM
    MasuBhat
    Why dot' you tell her that if she continues doing like this you'd break the ::B from FF"??
    by the way you'r writing if it was me i'd be already dumping her as B"
  • Feb 9, 2008, 07:42 AM
    Princess-IMYM
    If she is mad at me once again, I will tell her that I will not be her best friend anymore and take her out of my stories (I write about me, her and my other friend in my stories) because I can't take her constant mood swings anymore!
    When I tell some one about it, I have to choose my words carefully because it sounds like we're married!
    She still hasn't written that e-mail, and I'm sick of the physical abuse too.
    She hit's me with whatever she has at hand, her pencil case, her file, a big book, or sometimes just her hand!
    And she grabs the back of my neck if I'm being happy, and if I'm having fun and running around, she will grab me and point at me like I'm a dog, if I don't listen she'll kick me.
    We do have a lot of things in common, but she has a different view on them than I do.
  • Feb 9, 2008, 07:45 AM
    MasuBhat
    Wow.. she's really being boss there.. ya you do that girl.

    Though whatever you do wish you best of luck!
    Lot's of love
  • Feb 9, 2008, 07:49 AM
    talaniman
    At some point, you will have to stand up, and let her know, enough is enough.
  • Feb 9, 2008, 08:14 AM
    Princess-IMYM
    I will, and if she cries (because she will) I will not apologise, even if Kathrine (two faced so-and-so) comes over to yell at me, I'll give her an ear full too, because she's never ever been liked by anyone in our group.
    I'm looking forward to school now.
  • Feb 9, 2008, 08:21 AM
    MasuBhat
    I will, and if she cries (because she will) I will not apologise.

    Don't apologise but still will you live her crying there?
    At leat while she's crying pat her once and tell her whe shi needs you you'll be there.
    [ something like that.]
  • Feb 9, 2008, 08:45 AM
    Princess-IMYM
    Actually when she cries she's even more horrid to me.
    She tries to make me guilty, so I won't talk to her, I'm not cold hearted but if I even say a word to her she'll snap at me.
    And Kathrine will be standing there, trying to make her feel better by slagging me off.
  • Feb 9, 2008, 08:45 AM
    Princess-IMYM
    Actually when she cries she's even more horrid to me.
    She tries to make me guilty, so I won't talk to her, I'm not cold hearted but if I even say a word to her she'll snap at me.
    And Kathrine will be standing there, trying to make her feel better by slagging me off.
  • Feb 10, 2008, 02:09 AM
    justcurious55
    Masubat, I'm only sympathizing and not offering any advice because I still haven't figured out how to get rid of this person either. ;)
  • Feb 11, 2008, 03:26 AM
    MasuBhat
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by justcurious55
    masubat, i'm only sympathizing and not offering any advice because i still haven't figured out how to get rid of this person either. ;)

    .. hehe same here but still.. :P
  • Feb 11, 2008, 03:28 AM
    MasuBhat
    Well?. how did it turned out?. or haven't said yet? But if kathrine is there conforting her I bet she'll chose her as her next best friends?. lol
  • Feb 11, 2008, 09:34 AM
    Princess-IMYM
    I haven't said anything because I haven't had the chance.
    Today she was in a mood with me and all I said to her at all before hand was "Good morning!"
    Katharine was having a hissy fit over Rachel commenting that she'd gained weight since year 9, and she was saying something about b*ching, and I said "B*ching is what we do! i know for a fact you b*ch about me, dont say you dont, because i know you do, everyone does!" and then I think she started crying, I'm not sure but that's what everyone was saying.
    I wasn't even trying to be mean! I was only stating the truth!
    Anyway, She took Katharine away from us, glaring at me when I asked if she was in a mood with me.
  • Feb 11, 2008, 10:14 AM
    MasuBhat
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Princess-IMYM
    I havent said anything because i havent had the chance.
    Today she was in a mood with me and all i said to her at all before hand was "Good morning!"
    Katharine was having a hissy fit over Rachel commenting that she'd gained weight since year 9, and she was saying something about b*ching, and i said "B*ching is what we do! i know for a fact you b*ch about me, dont say you dont, because i know you do, everyone does!" and then i think she started crying, im not sure but thats what everyone was saying.
    I wasnt even trying to be mean! i was only stating the truth!
    Anyway, She took Katharine away from us, glaring at me when i asked if she was in a mood with me.

    She took Katharine away from us, I knew she would. Aniwaiz I thought not much girls liked her, so katharine?. did?
  • Feb 11, 2008, 02:32 PM
    Princess-IMYM
    Katharine is two faced.
    She was hanging out with my friend when we had a big argument a few days ago (then made friends then fell out again then made friends then fell out) at lunch, when my friend left, Katharine walked passed and said "You owe me big time for this!" Implying I had forced her to be nice to her.
    When my friend isn't around she slags her off like she does with everyone else.
    And my friend doesn't like Kathrine when she's not around. She used to be mean to her face, but now they know they're each others got.
    I'm annoyed of her, she keeps apologizing to me when I don't want to talk to her, sometimes I'm mean to her just so she'll stop saying sorry! But she won't.
    It bugs me so much.
    She and my friend belong together, bugs.
    They're both hated and have outrageous mood swings.
  • Feb 12, 2008, 10:48 AM
    Princess-IMYM
    Today, our friendship is over!
    And I also found out that:
    1) she thinks its my loss that we're not friends anymore.
    2) She thinks i'm jealous of her
    3) she thinks I'm mean to her friends (her friends are really my friends and I'm not mean to them!)
    4) Her dad has been telling her what to say to the student guidance thing.
  • Feb 13, 2008, 07:54 AM
    MasuBhat
    Well hope evth goes well on your coming days!. best of luck!
  • Feb 13, 2008, 09:37 AM
    Princess-IMYM
    Urgh, she's trying to be my friend again.
    But I'm not going to give, I feel better when I don't have her to worry about all the time.
    :)
  • Feb 14, 2008, 06:00 AM
    MasuBhat
    OK :)
    Quote:

    3) she thinks I'm mean to her friends (her friends are really my friends and I'm not mean to them!)
    In her face@...
  • Feb 14, 2008, 10:59 AM
    Princess-IMYM
    Yeah in her face :D

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