Talk to her about it. Tell her you care and you don't want her doing it. If you have to tell someone what she's doing to get her help... do it. Let her know that you did it because you care and you don't want her to get in trouble but you don't want her to do anything dangerous. Me n my boyfriend got each other to quit smoking pot, because we care for each other. And when you know someone really cares about you and doesn't want you to do that stuff, it makes you feel better so you don't do it and you also want them to be proud of you for not... Talk to her about it. Its one of the best things you can do... I know, I've been in her situation.

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Hey sweet, how are ya? LOL..You will do fine....

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Haha, thanks :)

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talk to her about it. Tell her you care and you don't want her doing it. If you have to tell someone what she's doing to get her help... do it. Let her know that you did it because you care and you don't want her to get in trouble but you don't want her to do anything dangerous. Me n my boyfriend got each other to quit smoking pot, because we care for each other. And when you know someone really cares about you and doesn't want you to do that stuff, it makes you feel better so you don't do it and you also want them to be proud of you for not... Talk to her about it. Its one of the best things you can do... I know, I've been in her situation.

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Thank you very much for your advice/help. I really appreciate it. That's a re-assuring story, too, so thanks for sharing that. I see what you mean too about this:

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And when you know someone really cares about you and doesn't want you to do that stuff, it makes you feel better so you don't do it and you also want them to be proud of you for not... Talk to her about it.

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So anyway, thanks again. :)

Bowling tonight? Great, I hope you have a good time and get some things off your chest tonight sweet... Remember, sweet but no to mushy... K?

Hey

Well it turns out we didn't go bowling last night, I couldn't get ahold of her to invite her all week, (I had thought my best friend had already invited her for some reason, but it turned out he hadn't, so I tried, but couldn't get ahold of her)... so, oops haha. Crap... well, sometime soon, hopefully next Friday we'll be able to. :(

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hey

well it turns out we didnt go bowling last night, I couldnt get ahold of her to invite her all week, (I had thought my best friend had already invited her for some reason, but it turned out he hadn't, so I tried, but couldnt get ahold of her)...so, oops haha. crap...well, sometime soon, hopefully next Friday we'll be able to. :(

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Ohhh darn it... sorry for the disappointment! I hope it all works out! If you need anything... come on back!:D

Thanks, I appreciate it :)

Yeah, I'll be sure to come back if I need any help haha.

Pray!! That's I would do!:)

Please keep an eye on the dates - this is from 2008, long "cold."