Ask Me Help Desk - How do delete this program my mom put on me?

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Originally Posted by bre1028

I have talked to pervs on the chat but i think i can handle it i handle it more then one time when i was in the chat room. i would say it's my problem if i get myself in trouble.i know i am risking my life in the chat room but it's my problem to deal with. i know i would sneek on to the chat room even if she's not here to monitor me.

This is exactly why your mother has put the block on the computer.
Your way of thinking is not only immature, but it could also endanger you.
I'm sure you won't want to "deal with it yourself" if a sex predator got ahold of you... think about that... because it happens daily.
I know you don't understand your mothers reasoning right now, but you will when you get older.
Just know that the block is in your best interest.

Now, I'm just curious, if you didn't put the troll alert avatar on there, then who did??
You know what that means, right?

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Originally Posted by bre1028

ii don't want my mom to care what and where i go in the computer.I just want her to let me go any where on the computer without her saying don't go here don't go there.

Sorry, but you have 5 years to wait. When you are 18 and can support yourself, you can make such decisions. Until then, that's what parents are for, to make these decisions for their children because they are older and wiser and more experienced.

So many teens think they "can handle it" with online chatters. Must be why another teen girl ran away with a 46 yr old man she met online, who turned out to be a registered sex offender.

I'm going to trust the avatar assigned to that member. :)

NK, I would as well ;)

I am surprised this simple issue has gone 3 pages. It seems you have problems accepting wise advice. Good for your mother.

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Originally Posted by NeedKarma

I'm going to trust the avatar assigned to that member. :)

Me Too :D

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Originally Posted by bre1028

When i get someone who is good @ computers i am going to ask the person to delete that program she has on the computer then i will be back on the chat room.I am going to try to get some over to my house when my mom is not home and let them help me with the computer program.

NO BRE1028 don't get anyone to take the program off,that will just cause arguments in your household when you're mum finds out.
Chatrooms aren't something you should rely on, I'm around you're age and I don't go on chatrooms and don't want to, Its more important to make friends with people who you know and who you can go shopping with, not people you have never seen.
Jack

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Your mom will know the codes to turn it off or delete it, just ask her.

she is not going to give me the pass word.

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Originally Posted by NeedKarma

I'm going to trust the avatar assigned to that member. :)

Good idea! Me too! :D

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Originally Posted by Jack2794

NO BRE1028 dont get anyone to take the program off,that will just cause arguments in your household when you're mum finds out.
Chatrooms arn't something you should rely on, im around you're age and i dont go on chatrooms and dont want to, Its more important to make friends with people who you know and who you can go shopping with, not people you have never seen.
Jack

I need to go back on the chat room.I want to go back on the chat room.If I was on the chat room I know that everyone from the chat room would be very worried about me because I haven't been there for awhile.I know the people in the chat room care about me.they told me that they were worried about me.when I was on the chat room I didn't give out my address or my phone number so I don't think I have anything to worry about when people on the chat rooms ask me for that information.people have asked me the strangest stuff and I know I have gave the right answers and that I can talk to the mods and monitor and they know what to say and what to tell me.I don't think my email would be something personal and not everyone @ the website have my email.I was in this relationship with this guy on the chat room.I have been in 3 relationships on the chat room.I have this friend on the chat room and he said that online relationships don't always work and that's true.I had a few crushes on some guys but I wasn't with all the guys I liked.when I talked to a few people they told me that I was flirting with guys.I was shocked.I don't know a lot about relationships but I was going to marry the guy who told me he was 17.he asked me if I would marry him and I said yes.and I also talked to his sister and his sister was very happy.I think's didn't work out.I still want to be with the guy.my friend told me to break up with him.it was my friends ex boyfriend.I just hope someone @ the chat room will give him my email so I can still email him.when I was in the chat room he wasn't in the chat room for awhile.I just hope he e-mails me soon.I know I am only 13.and he said he's 17.yeah 13 and 17 r far apart but still I think I was meant to be with him I just have to fix a few things with him.the bad news is that I have a crush on a person @ this website.I feel like I fit in a chat room then @ my school.I feel like I have a life in the chat room.

Hello bre1028,

Do you know why you have the avatar that you have?

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Originally Posted by bre1028

I need to go back on the chat room.I want to go back on the chat room....
was meant to be with him i just have to fix a few things with him.the bad news is that i have a crush on a person @ this website.i feel like i fit in a chat room then @ my school.I feel like i have a life in the chat room.

Now we start to see the true story. You have an obsession about this chat room. At 13 your judgement is already under question, add an obsession to it and its not hard to understand why your mother is using a blocker.

You NEED to get counseling to learn how to deal with your issues. You are living in a fantasy world that is becoming more real to you then reality. And that is a recipe for disaster.

Scottgem hit the nail on the head. Bre1028, you are totally out of control with that chat site. You should be glad your mother still allows you internet access!

My son has a filter and a timer. When he maxes out his time for the day, he finds other things to do. I would suggest the same for you.

Find a club at school or take dance/gymnastics lessons or something that will enrich your life. A chatroom just rots away hours you can never get back.

How, about asking your mom to join in your cyber activities. Or better yet turn it off and ask you mom to spend time with you.

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Originally Posted by Clough

Hello bre1028,

Do you know why you have the avatar that you have?

no I don't know.

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Originally Posted by btucker

How, about asking your mom to join in your cyber activities. Or better yet turn it off and ask you mom to spend time with you.

Ha ha spend time with me?Every chance I got I pulled away from my mom.My mom doesn't have time to spend with me she has work and she tired.I have a sport that I play.I love my sport.I am just glad that my mom knows I was on the chat room and she doesn't allow me to go there and I happy I can't go to the chat room.I have had a friend who warned me about the chat room and I didn't believe her.she told me what could happened to me and she told me what happened to her when she was on the chat room.I just ignored my friend when she told me what happened.I read this story about this girl who was on the chat room and reading it just made me really scared and I think I gave personal information without even noticing that I did.when I read the story I did a little of what the girl did.I am scared.
:( :confused:

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Originally Posted by Emland

Scottgem hit the nail on the head. Bre1028, you are totally out of control with that chat site. You should be glad your mother still allows you internet access!

My son has a filter and a timer. When he maxes out his time for the day, he finds other things to do. I would suggest the same for you.

Find a club at school or take dance/gymnastics lessons or something that will enrich your life. A chatroom just rots away hours you can never get back.

That's horrible that he has a timer.That would be torture for me and maybe for him too.Me out of control with the chat room?Ha ha wow!Really Emland?:confused:

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Originally Posted by bre1028

That's horrible that he has a timer.That would be torture for me and maybe for him too.Me out of control with the chat room?Ha ha wow!Really Emland?:confused:

Emland is a responsible parent, just as your mother is, and just as I will be when my kids get that age. Your mother monitoring your computer is for your own good.

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Originally Posted by Clough

Hello bre1028,

Do you know why you have the avatar that you have?

Thanks for the advice.and I am not going to waste anyone else time.sorry about that.