My dad is someone I have never new and I need to find him,he does not know I exist, but I know he does,I only know his first name and the color of hair he has,I also know the place he worked 13 years ago,but that place has shut down. I would email the people that used to own it but I have no idea how to contact them because I can't find the website to their old restaurant. Am I screwed?? Please help me,I am only thirteen and I really want a father,I am so desprite to find him! Please??

First he is the man who sleep with your mother, he is a bio dad. But not a real parent, and why are you desperate to find someone who may curse at you for finding him, deny you are his and so on.
Do you have a step dad in your life?

At 13 we can not help you even if we could, but no one can with that little of information.
Most likely you mom knows a lot more, last name, where his family was from or more, Friends they had in common at the time and more.

Keep on looking for him ! Have you tried asking your mom? Anyway find more clues and details!! Try your best it's worth it

Im having the a similar issue to yours. But I am 17. I know my "fathers" family and hopefully I get info on him. Hopefully I will be able to put child support on him for all the years he has missed out. ALL 17 of them!

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Originally Posted by meli0894

Im having the a simular issue to yours. But i am 17. I know my "fathers" family and hopefully i get info on him. Hopefully i will be able to put child support on him for all the years he has missed out. ALL 17 of them!

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You can't "put" child support on him. Your MOTHER could have and in some places, still can, obtain a support order until you are out of College.

Why didn't she?