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  • May 24, 2008, 06:52 PM
    Stephen100
    Nahhhhhh.:o just don't do noin stupid.
  • May 24, 2008, 08:31 PM
    skittlefrittle
    Let me just tell you this straight.
    Middle school is TOO YOUNG FOR DATING.
    If you get together in ms, you are DOOMED and you WILL BREAK UP in high school.
    I mean sure there may be that 3% that gets lucky. But literally every single couple. Every single one that has gotten together in ms that I have ever known has broken up. Every single one. If you want this to last, be friends and get together in hs. Hs is the place for that and who knows you might even go all the way from that jump pad. But ms is not it.
  • Jun 3, 2008, 08:04 PM
    tadita83
    Don't expect a serious relationship in middle school because you probably won't find a serious one until high school maybe even college or beyond. But some form of dating in middle school is OK. You definitley don't need a sexual relationship with a guy. But casual dating that is comfortable to you him and your parents sounds good
  • Aug 16, 2008, 01:35 PM
    Mikky V
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by applesbananas456
    i like this guy and i want to go out with him. i dont want to be sexual <definately not> but i want him to be my boyfriend. in your own opinion, is middle school too young for dating?

    I'm going to tenth grade and when I was in middle school, dating was OK. I think middle school is like a way for kids or young adults to experiment with a boy or a girl ( not sexually and to learn to like someone or something. So I think your really not to young for dating.
  • Aug 29, 2008, 12:30 PM
    Luvscats11
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by applesbananas456
    i like this guy and i want to go out with him. i dont want to be sexual <definately not> but i want him to be my boyfriend. in your own opinion, is middle school too young for dating?

    I'm in middle school and our family just let it be like "group dates" which is totally fine with me. And I have to say that's the funnest way. And if you want to go out with him and don't know how to tell him just invite him to a movie with two other friends of yours and you'll be able to tell if he likes you. I don't know much, but I hope it helps :)
  • Sep 2, 2008, 06:38 PM
    Stephen100
    Dating? :eek: you are young!
  • Sep 13, 2008, 02:58 PM
    mechisopa1234
    No!
  • Sep 25, 2008, 01:49 PM
    deronette97
    Comment on whiteladybug2002's post
    I totally agree with that!
  • Sep 28, 2008, 10:39 AM
    Global warming

    Yea I am trying to ask a guy out I mean when I had my first BF I was in 4th grade! So it's not to young to start dating.
  • Oct 28, 2008, 04:56 PM
    Rainbow0077

    Heck no! I'm a 7th grader and I've had a boyfriend for 9 months now;]
  • Nov 10, 2008, 07:54 PM
    reapers199
    I am justin...
    I am in 6th grade and I'm strugling with girls...
    I know about guys turst me I am one...
    Look tell him you like him and take note on his styles and what he likes but he knows if he likes you he will change to what he thinks you like...

    OK forget all the crap I just typed...

    ASK HIM OUT!
    Just walk up make a conversation and ask him out... (first date: to a movie!):D
  • Jun 17, 2009, 09:59 AM
    MSfreak
    Hey I got my first girlfriend who I'm still dating now in 4th grade I'm going into sixth grade but I can tell you this being I'm a guy. If we just yes you to death that means we're not listening to you because your talking too much but also don't come on too strong usually th eguy comes to you before you go to him:):):D:D:cool::cool:
  • Jun 23, 2009, 10:04 PM
    oscardog
    NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO definitely not I started dating I 3rd grade science then I've just been keeping it cool:cool:
  • Jul 9, 2009, 10:53 AM
    jerieischillin

    Yes of course ,you should date because it teaches you before you go to high school definely
  • Jul 12, 2009, 07:16 PM
    Katt1997
    Hey there!:) I think that middle school IS NOT too early to start dating! I am going into middle school in about a month, and I've had 2 boyfriends. One was for about 5 months, and the other asked me out about a month ago. I actually recommend to date or at least admit that you like someone because in late middle school/early high school it will probably be hard for you to do something about it if you haven't already. Just don't go sexual AT ALL! Trust me you'll thank me when you walk into high school and see half of the 9th grader pregnant. That will ruin their lives. Just don't be supprised if someone turns you down! Life will go on. And you ALWAYS learn from mistakes! Hopes this helps!
  • Jul 19, 2009, 06:09 AM
    mmladybee

    Well it all depends on what you want to do so if you don't want action then make sure that he feels the same way otherwise then don't date him and middle school is great for dating so once you have a boyfriend hopily you guys will be together if not find a new one and its reat practice
  • Jul 19, 2009, 06:10 AM
    mmladybee

    And don't be afraid of asking him the boy doesn't have to ask you out all the time
  • Jul 20, 2009, 06:16 AM
    jerieischillin

    You could have one of your or his friends ask him to go out with you,you can pass notes,or you can just ask him out face to face
  • Jul 20, 2009, 12:56 PM
    mmladybee

    No its not like what he said just listen to what say and you will do fine
  • Aug 7, 2009, 06:25 PM
    JstJessica

    I don't think its too young for dating either.
    What I do is first become really good friends for about 2 months or so and tell them what you feel for them. And choose them wisely.
    You don't want a guy to be in you way in school
    ;;unless you don't want to go to college;;
    But you should want to and you want a guy
    Who actually cares about you and your dreams!

    So yeah I'm 16 now & I have a boyfriend that
    I've been dating for 3 years & he's amazing

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