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Everyone hate because I'm anoying but I have ADHD ands there's nothing I can do about It. I'm afraud it will get to me and il kill myself
A about me if 15 and I live in a town with a population of 500 and only ten of them are kids so don't say join a club or something because there aren't any
Hey kitkat
Are you on any medications? Elaborate why you think everyone hates you.
I tried medication but it didn't work and they say I'm random and really anoying
Hi there! I just wanted to tell you you can find a lot of good answers here. Don't even think about killing yourself! A whole lot of people suffer with ADD and ADHD. It's nothing to be ashamed of. I'll bet there is some things you do a lot better than others!
Do you like music? Do you have a girfriend? What is your favorite thing to do? Look , being annoying is not just a problem for people with ADHD or ADD. I'm annoying a lot! It's okay. Talk to us.
Sorry ohso didn't mean to jump ahead. I had answered the question but appaerently it didn't go through. Sorry. See I am very annoying.Quote:
Originally Posted by ohsohappy
One thing that I have to say to you is this: Never say you can't help it, because it shows that you aren't trying to help yourself. It's difficult, but you should try to put in more effort. There are a LOT of people in this world who have ADHD and can live perfectly normal lives.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tmergs
Here's some things you can do to help
Drink less pop
Cut down on sugar
Chew gum. When you're trying to focus, Gum can help because it helps you with your need to fidget.
But here's the main thing, don't WORRY about what other people think. People your age are real JERKS. I mean BIG JERKS. They're not all very understanding. I was there just 5 years ago, I know. You do and say what you want to say, and if you want to change anything, make sure you're trying to change for YOU not for anyone else.
Nah you're fine. :)Quote:
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Thanks for awnsering but I don't have a girl friend because they all say I'm to anoying and I like football but I'm not verry good
Then practice! Don't just say "I'm not good, so why bother" Say "I'm not that good yet, but I'll keep trying" Work towards a goal, that can help keep you focused. :)Quote:
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Yah it's just I'm not athletic I mean I lift weights and I live in Wisconsin where the weathers terible so I can't really practice during the offseason
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So you're not very good at football, but the thing is you must have tried. So keep on trying new things. Learn to play guitar or paint.
I had never tried skateboarding till last summer! Found out it wasn't for me.. You know what a great past time for me is? I put on my sweats and walk. I take my Ipod and it's my music and me. Try it sweetie.
I really like the guitar idea. :) ExcellentQuote:
Originally Posted by Kitkat22
I guess I'm pretty god at trap shooting and I'm a big deer hunter but that only comes around once a year
You are trying and that's what counts.Quote:
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Yeah! That's the spirit!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kitkat22
Another thing is If you wouldn't mind helping me with this to I like this girl but were really close like brother and sisterbut I'm afraid to tell her how I feel and she says she loves me but I don't think she means it the way I feel
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Originally Posted by Tmergs
Do you like to read? My goodness reading can take you to places and adventures you could never dream of! You are fifteen and you shouldn't let a few mean kids make you feel bad about yourself. If you believe in God ask his guidance. He's always there! The people on this forum are going to give you great advice. Now you need to listen to it okay!
It's kind of off subject but yah
Just see where it goes, she sounds interested. :)Quote:
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And yes I do like to read
Yah but she loves me like family and it would be kind of weird for her because we are so close
Well, you're only 15, feelings can change. I'd say don't ruin what you do have.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tmergs
On the bright side, clearly not EVERYBODY hates you, because she cares. :)
[Famous Comedians and Actresses with ADHD
Some of the most prominent comedians and actresses who suffer from ADHD are: Jim Carey, Whoopi Goldberg, Mariette Hartley & Robin Williams. All of these people are artistic, original as well as extremely successful as known by all. They all have the most prominent signs of ADHD, even though in some cases ADHD comes without the hyperactivity as well.
Famous Scientists and Inventors with ADHD
Presented here are a few names that are known by all and they have made great achievements in their respected fields. They have certainly created such things that have changed the world. Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein, Alexander Graham Bell and Benjamin Franklin. One should just think, where would the world be without the contributions of these regarded people?
Famous Composer Mozart Had ADHD
If we go through Mozart’s life, we come to conclude that he displayed several of the characteristics of ADHD. He was a whirlwind of liveliness, restless, eager, precipitate, easily distracted, imaginative, inventive, stimulating, mocking, and a nonconformist. He had all the typical signs of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. He also has given the world the most composite beautiful music ever written.
You are in great company:):):)
Look at this list. You're in great company.[/QUOTE]Quote:
Originally Posted by Kitkat22
If I were allowed, I'd greenie your every post.
Yah but I think she's the only oneQuote:
Originally Posted by ohsohappy
If I were allowed, I'd greenie your every post.[/QUOTE]Quote:
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Now that makes me feel so great! I could cry. Thanks ohso!
It's about Quality, not quantity. I'd rather have a few really good friends, than be popular and surrounded by strangers who seem to like me because of my image, not because of who I am. Just a thought.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tmergs
You no you guys are great thanks but I just wish I could be normal you know?
Define normal. :)Quote:
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Pshaw! My pleasure Ma'am. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Kitkat22
I just wish I had someone to talk to
This is gobs sound kind of wired but o was wandering if you guys wanted to exchange email adreses and chat some time stop me if I'm out of line
Well, we're certainly here. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Tmergs
Omg I am a really bad typed
Well it's because I'm on the Internet on my iPod and the butons are really small
I bet it's because you try to type too fast. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Tmergs
Take it slow. And we can definitely chat on here if you need to. Most of us are on every day. We'll take care of you. :)
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Originally Posted by Tmergs
You are! But stop putting yourself down! You are you and I just know there are a lot of people who love just the way you are! Now you behave yourself and listen... You are a good kid! You are among a lot of great people who have ADHD. You are someone's child and I know in my heart they love you very much.
When these kids say something mean, ignore them. It takes more courage to walk away. Anyone can stand there and argue, but walking away from that situation can keep you out of trouble.
A few years from now when you have a successful life, it will be nice to go to the driveway at Mickey D's and give them your order. That sounds mean but I don't think it is. I think when kids torment other kids it's great when the underdog is the successful one.
DON'T SAY I CAN'T. DON'T SAY I'M NOT GOOD AT ANYTHING! LOOK AT ALL THE GREAT THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF! Now that's the mom mode kicking in. I'm not your mom, but I think she would tell you the same thing. You be good now.
Asking for you're email address was probably kind of weird I probably sounded like some kind of molester
Man this is wired I usually talk about thAt girl I was talking about but talking about it with older people no offense is kind of wired but in someways better
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