GOOOOOOD LUCK! That is great sweet Need. Thank goodness for great dads and smart daughters to accept help from them:)
You get your stuff taken care of and uh... dont ever tell your boss to go and do that. You may not have a job afterward! HAHAHAHAHA
My yoga is fine;)

Thanks for the support need. I still have my wits about me when it comes to NOT saying things that would get me fired... lol
So how are you your ear your family your goals?

My ear is fine. Better as it will get.;) I am doing my yoga everyday, I am so happy for that! I am working on the goals, but it is more complicated that I want to get into. The kids are fine and they are helping, they still act sometimes like they shouldn't even have to clean their room, but for the most part we get past that and all in all they make out with allowance every week;) My daughter is the biggest help... I always knew she would be.
When are you leaving? Are you going to have puter access?

tues. Yep will be writing you lol I am glad things are better and am here for the complications. My sonogram shows all clear so still have NO idea what is going on... uhg. Well we know what its not. So... I will keep in touch

If you ever need someone to chat to then visit my myspace page and I will be more than happy to discuss life its Michelle's view hun xxx

Cute: Thx will do...
Start... miss you... how are you? The yoga? I failed but... will try again... have made progress in other areas though;)...

If you made progress then you haven't failed sweet Need;)
Good job...
N is for new
E is for exciting
E is for energy
D is for determination...
GO NEED!

Hugs...

Thanks Start!
S is for super!
T is for Terrific!
A is for Amazing!
R is for REAL!
T is for Timeless
The kind of friend you are to me! Thanks start... Have a great holiday!!

Awww shucks... you are good.
YOu have a great holiday too sweet Need. Golly!

Happy Thanksgiving... I am Thankful for you!
Hope all is well!

Hi, I'm 33, in a very similar situation. New to my surrounds and alone. I have no friends too close to me. Just looking for some online chat and companionship. I've tried multiple ways of keeping myself occupied, most of the time it still comes back to needing someone to chat with. Human interaction. Anyone want to chat?

Volk: sure anytime. I know exactly what you mean.
How was your holidays? What are your hobbies?
Start: How were your holidays. I have missed our chats...

Yoga and some working today... I need to make up some hours;)

Hope your Thanksgiving was great. I had a nice time;)

How are all your little plans turning out?

I wasn't able to attend Thanksgiving dinner this year. Had to work and family is a little too far to do both. Things go up and down lately. I've been coping, but haven't found any real solutions to the lonliness. This is the first time I've ever been alone for more than a few days. I noticed that I went over a day without even speaking to anyone. That's weird. I like being alone and having my own schedule, but I do need some human interaction. You know.. without taking drastic measures. I go to work just to hang out with others sometimes. I know, pathetic. I work out as much as I can to pass time and not sit around and drink beer. I don't know. I'll eventually find some friends I guess.

Start:... well not so good... but still trying. I have rested though!
Volk: I am sorry that you weren't able to attend Thanksgiving dinner. I have lived in this area most of my life and still haven't figured out how to make friends. I DO like to be alone... Too Much. I get lonely for conversation. I am around people all day but... no real conversation. So what do you do for a living. You moved by yourself? Not married or have kids?
The working out is good. It produces the GOOD hormones... but I bet you already knew that. Do you live in a small town?
I hope to hear from you soon!

Need a friend:
I split up with a girlfriend who I am in great debt to. She helped me through my previous divorce and we really did have something, but she was drinking too much and then a bunch of other personal things happened over the course of a year, so I just cut it off, she didn't want to help herself and I needed to get away. For the better. I was able to live temporarily at a friends place for a month until I found a place. Found a place closer to work and now it's just me. Lonely and 40 miles from family and friends. I don't know anyone in the area really. I just hang out and work out, ride my bikes and surf the net and eat and drink and sleep. Talk to a friend of mine on the phone once and a while. Really depressing stuff. I would much rather not talk about my jobs outside of they are the only things I've had to look forward to. It's not a small town, but it's no metropolis either. I've never been alone before. It's depressing.

Volkl,
I know how you feel. I moved 60 miles from my family and it is hard! That was along time ago for me. I was in the same delima as you. All I did was work eat and sleep. I still don't have any friends either. I like to be alone. BUT there are times I need someone to talk to. I wish I knew what to say to make things OK for you. It sounds like you are smart if you got away from the drinking...
I am the girlfriend that helped through the divorce, but he started drinking not me.
I am still here and it is not as bad as it was in the beginning by a long stretch but I wish he would quit altogether. He is a 3 nighter. Goes out 3 or 4 nights a week. But is usually home by 10 and the bar is 3 blocks away.
Is there anyone at work that you could hang with after?
Well I know I can't fix the problem so I will quit trying... LOL I am here for you if you want to talk... startover22 has been a great friend for me... and a great cheerleader.
Tell me about you... what kind of workouts do you do? Weights?
Any other interests or hobbies you have or would like to have? Fav color?

Need?? How are you? I am doing good, slowing on the yoga but getting my life in some sort of order. I am getting the total gym thingy, I need more muscle and I can't seem to use the free weights cause of my back. Work is nuts, kids are crazy, and we got our Christmas tree up.

GO NEED GO!

VOLK, make yourself get out of the house and do something... you have to or you will go crazy. Get involved. be a big brother or volunteer, do crafts with kids after school... help your community. (if time allows that is)
Good luck!

Well... I ride my bike often. Not just indoors. Even though it cold out, I force myself to get out and that's nice, went riding on Saturday, Colder than... I ski, went skiing on Sunday. Was helping my 4 yr old niece improve her technique. Well.. you know She's 4. LOL. Needless to say I had a good weekend. As for volunteering I've been considering helping at the hospital. Right now I volunteer my services for a local social club, but that is getting old and I really want to get out of it.

Things are going better.. but there's always going to be harder times.

Volk, There will always be better times too!! It is good that you stay active. I would love to learn to ski... alas... It is FLAT where I live! Try to find the good! We are here for you!!
Start>>>Great! I want a total gym thingy too!! Goy my treadmill up but had to make a fast dash 1000 mile trip... got caught in a snow storm in the dark in a v6 rear wheel drive car going up a mountain!! AAAAHHHH! I thought I was going to have to ghost write you!! lol.
I am glad the yoga is still going!! Go START go! No christmas tree for us this year YEAH!!
Back to work... boo hoo... will write again soon!!