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  • Nov 4, 2008, 04:24 PM
    Need a friend

    I am doing my best. Self talk and all... Yes I admit I talk to myself... lol!I am just doing what I can when I can to take care of myself, and trying to keep so balance everywhere else!
    Glad to hear from you start... missed ya1
  • Nov 4, 2008, 08:14 PM
    startover22
    I talk to myself tooooooooo:)
  • Nov 5, 2008, 08:04 AM
    Need a friend

    Hey Start. Its good to know I am not alone in that. I am having one of those days. Wow it is a real whopper! I can seem to get past it. My whole life I have fought to stay normal or what ever that is and this Thing is raising its aweful head... What is wrong with me? Why can't I get it to stop!
    Uhg! Ok got to go and get my stuff together. Work work
  • Nov 5, 2008, 08:36 AM
    startover22
    I love to sing out loud... and I find myself saying Oh YEAH... or just positive little quirks when I like what just happened...
    I don't have a conversation but I do say things out loud sometimes;)
    I think everyone's normal is different;) So if we can start to take value in those differences, we will all be better. Hugs... gotta get ready for work too... I am going to be crushed with the political talk today, I just know it!
  • Nov 7, 2008, 08:22 AM
    startover22
    Did my yoga... Ohhhhh... OOOOOOOOHHHHHHH...
    I will be sore tonight;)
    Have a great day Need... see you;)
  • Nov 7, 2008, 04:53 PM
    Need a friend

    Hope you had a great day... mine was better. Whoo hoo Start do that yoga!!
  • Nov 8, 2008, 10:54 AM
    startover22
    Need, you doing OK now? Remember, we can't always be perfect, nor can we always have a smile on our face... we are human;) Hugs. Going to do my Yoga, and no matter what falls apart around me, or you... we will come out alive;)
  • Nov 8, 2008, 11:28 AM
    Need a friend

    Doing better and still alive.Hugs 2 u2! Thanks start you are a great cheer leader!!
  • Nov 8, 2008, 11:33 AM
    startover22
    GREAT! I will do my Yoga after cleaning.
    I think I need a week to go and clear my mind... then "startover" you know? People keep saying just take a day off... go do something for yourself... I don't want to sound greedy but a whole entire lifestyle change is needed... not a day off. Does that sound mean? A DAY is not going to farkin cut it. LOL I sound harsh, huh? You, I know;)
  • Nov 8, 2008, 11:38 AM
    Need a friend

    I DO understand and I hear THAT! I am right there with you.No it doesn't sound mean. You give and give. Takes a lot of rain to fill up a dry lake... It would take a month just to be able to function a half!
    I am here though. Not much but you can yell if you want... lol!!
    I am at work I get to clean ALL day tomorrow!
    Maybe the yoga should come first... if it helps!
  • Nov 8, 2008, 11:55 AM
    startover22
    Thanks Need. :):):)

    I am going to be just fine, just like you are. Make little changes at a time then go for the gusto! Go Need and Start... GOOOOOO!
    I could have gone into work, and I almost did, just to get away from here for a bit. That just doesn't sound right so I stayed here. LOL I have help, just... oh its such a long story and I don't even want to start so, we will stay where we are and just know you are not alone. AND neither am I. YOGA YOGA YOGA!
  • Nov 8, 2008, 12:43 PM
    Need a friend

    TOGA TOGA... oh YOU said YOGA... lol... Yep I am here. Leaving work for paperwork... Will be on 2mro! GO START!! Whoo whoo!! U can do it!!
  • Nov 8, 2008, 12:45 PM
    marriaget

    Try your best to get out there, never be too busy for anything...

    Get in shape, be healthy, be happy... go out to clubs... meet people... it's hard but practice makes perfect. (:
  • Nov 10, 2008, 09:14 PM
    startover22
    Legs are feeling like spaghetti and I have been doing my yoga... Ohhhh
    Ohhhhh
    Ohhhhhhhhhh:)
    I hope I can get back to where I left off, seriously!
    Hope you are great Need;) Keep goin' with yourself stuff, its great!
  • Nov 11, 2008, 05:20 AM
    Need a friend

    Hey start. Getting along here. Proud of you and the yoga! Great job. Working out the kinks here... back to the DR. I go... and then some!
  • Nov 11, 2008, 06:00 AM
    vev_pro
    Hey your in the same track as mine.I am left alone.I did a lot to my friends but they just left me.I started loving loneliness
  • Nov 12, 2008, 05:28 AM
    Need a friend

    Thanks Vev... here if you need to talk
    Wish me luck. I am going all out. I have one month to get it together. Ya know, Quit smoking, change my diet, get healthy. So... Here I go!!
  • Nov 12, 2008, 06:04 AM
    vev_pro
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Need a friend View Post
    I am 35 and I just need a friend. I need someone I can talk to about what is going on in my life, ask advice, chat with, and return the favor. I work alot and have No friends. I am lonely and just need some advice on where I could find someone who will chat with me on a serious level.
    Any suggestions?

    U can try some social networking sites.even I am alone since child but these sites provde a great relief for my pain
  • Nov 12, 2008, 08:40 AM
    startover22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Need a friend View Post
    Thanks Vev ...here if you need to talk
    Wish me luck. I am going all out. I have one month to get it together. Ya know, Quit smoking, change my diet, get healthy. So.....Here I go!!!!!

    Ohhhhh good luck!! Need, tell me your plan? I can't imagine doing all that at once...
    BUT, if you are willing and that is what you want to do... then GO NEED GO! WOO Hoo!
  • Nov 13, 2008, 05:21 AM
    Need a friend

    Vev: I do use networking. It does help THX I am glad you too find help there. Why are you so alone?
    Start: OK Are you ready? Well I continue to have cramps and such. My father is in alternative medicine. He has a network of people incl. Med Dr.s. SO... I took a month off work. Tues. I get the no smoking shot... again. Also will go up there for a yeast kill and start back I will be staying with him for a week.He has a massage therapist along withlots of other things that can help. I started therapy yesterday UHG and I went and got the sonogram the medical dr wanted me to get. SO... I may not get it all done. I may not succeed in every area. I don't know... BUT I don't have the extra stress. My boss said. Just go get a historectomy and get it over... WOW that was cold. I wanted to tell him to get castrated and then we would talk, but kept my mouth shut and my job intact.
    My sign. Other is being very supportive and told me to do whatever I needed to do. So I am
    There is a YMCA where my father lives so I can start an exercise regimine of sorts.
    Wish me LUCK... and how's that yoga coming?

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