You can ask me anything.
I have two sons (adults now), but no daughters. If one of them went through something like this, I would make sure he knows I love him very much and would find just the right person to help him with the eating problem and with the bullying problem.
One of my sons is autistic, so I could keep you up all night with stories about him and things that have given him problems -- and how he has conquered those problems.
Bedtime, and we will talk more tomorrow?