Ask Me Help Desk - How do I stop feeling like this

Oh heck, 'YAWN', what else is new with you No one ?

Let me wave my wand and your family will go away, and you will be homeless, witih no money or connections. OK.

Have you ever seen homeless people on the streets of Toronto with their sleeping bags and pets with them. Oh, wait, now they are in parks but they still can't wash.

Oh, wait again, you dont like people, living in a park in a tent with a pet would not be for you. You would have to live under the Gardiner Expressway in the garbage with maybe Rob Ford.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

Everyone your age makes wrong decisions all the time... (that's what parents are there for, to help you learn to make the right ones). But adults make the wrong decisions as well... some more than others... I don't know ANY who have not made a bad decision in the last month or two much less the last year or more.

What matters more than the fact that you made a wrong decision... is that you learn from your mistakes to not make them a second or third time.

Believe me... there are adults that never learn that lesson. Look at people who have been married 3 or more times as one example.

Well I guess it's nice to know I'm not the only person out there to make the wrong choices. I try to make the right decisions but I'm too much of a coward to do the hard things and always chose the easy way. And then I get myself into even worse situations. No wonder why my mum is so disappointed in me. God I hate that word I'd rather her be mad at me

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Originally Posted by tickle

Oh heck, 'YAWN', what else is new with you No one ?

Let me wave my wand and your family will go away, and you will be homeless, witih no money or connections. OK.

Have you ever seen homeless people on the streets of Toronto with their sleeping bags and pets with them. Oh, wait, now they are in parks but they still can't wash.

Oh, wait again, you dont like people, living in a park in a tent with a pet would not be for you. You would have to live under the Gardiner Expressway in the garbage with maybe Rob Ford.

I don't want my family to go away. I know I have a good life. I do like people. I don't want to be a burden to my family anymore just want to have the courage to make the right choices and not disappoint people in my life. I have seen homeless people and I appreciate the fact that I have a home to live in and are taken care of. I know some people are not so lucky and I shouldn't complain about my silly little problems thanks for reminding me that

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Originally Posted by Noone2014

I know some people are not so lucky and I shouldn't complain about my silly little problems thanks for reminding me that

You are welcome. Most of us here come from a simpler time and we had minor growing up problems, but we got through them to be fully functioning worthwhile adults. You will too.