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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

"Out," not "down" -- i.e., do your best to please them. So their smiles and thank yous mean nothing to you?

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Of course it means something, but I stopped caring what people think OF me. I just can't explain it. If I sat there and worried about what people think of me, my mind would be very crowded. All I want is someone who treats me the way I'm suppose to be treated, and understands me.

Don't you think you are ruining yourself?

In the end he is pulling you into his bad world; stealing him from his girlfriend might give you a bad reputation, even if you are not planning to do this anything is possible. What would your friends think of you, if you end up making him fall in love with you? Don't say that you don't care about their opinions. To tell you the truth I value friendship more than a relationship.

Leaving him is your best choice, obviously you are being influenced by his bad behavior. For example, I don't think that you are the type of person who normally falls in this kind of problems but now look at where you are, maybe you can't see it with your own eyes but others can view this better than you. Notice, that all of the commenters discourage you from telling him how you feel; that was your question from the beginning and I believe you just got an answer for it.

Do you not understand the precarious position you are putting yourself in by messing with not only a gang member, but a gang members girlfriend? You are just waiting for a beatdown.

You use a lot of "pretty" words - words sound good. Actions speak volumes.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

You use a lot of "pretty" words - words sound good. Actions speak volumes.

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What do you mean "pretty words" and how do I use them?

Help!

Okay, so they told me there a huge posibility of me having severe bipolarism and having OCPD(OBSESSIVE CUMPULSIVE PERSONALITY DISORDER) and that I really need to take test plus a mental trauma but I don't know how to tell me mom, and I don't know how she will respond, I'm scared

They ( who are they?) and they should be calling your mom in for a talk and to arrange any medical testing.

Who told you this, and how did they decide on these two diagnoses?

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Originally Posted by kiara-morales

what do you mean "pretty words" and how do i use them?

Help!

okay, so they told me there a huge posibility of me having severe bipolarism and having OCPD(OBSESSIVE CUMPULSIVE PERSONALITY DISORDER) and that i really need to take test plus a mental trauma but i don't know how to tell me mom, and i don't know how she will respond, i'm scared

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You just simply DO IT.

Why... because maybe you get treatment before you do something dumb that can negatively affect your health... or your place among the living.

Gangs and their members have no respect for life or others. And you are putting yourself right in their crosshairs to be a future target for retribution.

How old do you guys think I am?. literally... guess.

Why should we be guessing your age? Its your story, you should be forth right with fact so you can get informed suggestions and to be honest you do no good to your credibility when your facts are not adding up.

No from the very first question, they're asking if girlfriend or wife

Forget the other places you are posting in and deal with the questions about you and your questions please.

Please focus - who told you this?: "okay, so they told me there a huge posibility of me having severe bipolarism and having OCPD(OBSESSIVE CUMPULSIVE PERSONALITY DISORDER) and that i really need to take test plus a mental trauma but i don't know how to tell me mom, and i don't know how she will respond, i'm scared"

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Please focus - who told you this?: "okay, so they told me there a huge posibility of me having severe bipolarism and having OCPD(OBSESSIVE CUMPULSIVE PERSONALITY DISORDER) and that i really need to take test plus a mental trauma but i don't know how to tell me mom, and i don't know how she will respond, i'm scared"

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School doctors and counslers... they said I have some of the major signs, but I don't know which signs they're talking about.

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Originally Posted by kiara-morales

school doctors and counslers...they said i have some of the major signs, but i don't know which signs they're talking about.

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So you were told this and then the matter dropped, or have you been asked to participate in counseling, or told to find a counselor on your own? These are not just conversation stoppers or cute terms you toss at people on a help site but really serious mental problems that require regular counseling and the faithful taking of medication.

WG just said it all - on a similar topic, how did paper get stuck in your ear? Is that part of your anxiety?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

WG just said it all - on a similar topic, how did paper get stuck in your ear? Is that part of your anxiety?

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She said she had gone to the doctor and got it fixed, but no mention of what it was/what the doctor found. Are we nosing about for conditions and diseases to have?

No, I am more concerned about the comment about her mother being a "true Mexican" (or words to that effect), OP being afraid/nervous about telling her mother about the paper and ear. Perhaps mother is refusing or not recognizing the need for medical services.

Is the paper in the ear a last ditch bid for her mother's attention or for medical attention?