I am not desperate. It's hard to control feelings.. and my feelings for this person went very fast and that is why I want things to work out after 2 months. I had a very large break from dating to find myself... I think the paranoia is more like the giddyness of a school girl that I have "does he like me????!!!" you know... lol...

You can put whatever spin you like on this Devoted but I am not going to disregard what I know about how this stuff works. I regret to say I now see there is no way be of any help to you. I wish you the best in all your endeavors.

Um... OK.. thank you I guess lol

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Originally Posted by Devoted732

I am not desperate. It's hard to control feelings.. and my feelings for this person went very fast and that is why I want things to work out after 2 months. I had a very large break from dating to find myself... I think the paranoia is more like the giddyness of a school girl that i have "does he like me????!!!" you know... lol...

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After two months the only way this will work is to keep it simple and enjoy it. You will learn as you go , but to try and fix a perceived problem at this point will throw a wrench in the game. You are to deep for this stage in the dating game, so relax and back off a bit. Give both of you a chance to enjoy and learn, that's how a relationship grows.

Thank you... believe me, I am backing off... Not being so available and having my own life :)