Because Tickle can read and actually understand what she reads. You owe her an apology for suggesting, even demanding, that she give you some sort of example. Your attitude speaks for itself. And if you already know the answer, why did you ask the question?
Give you some kind of example? "In these days everything is possible."
Really? First, please don't even attempt to dictate who will answer your questions and in what manner. No one needs to give you examples, prove ANYTHING to you.
And, no, not everything is possible - this is a blanket statement which, quite frankly, is foolish.
Here's how I know "phobia don't disappear" without some sort of treatment, self or otherwise. I also note your brother doesn't seem to have a problem with what you've diagnosed as a phobia. You do. Anyway, here's the site: http://www.helpguide.org/mental/phob..._treatment.htm
Here's a thought. Two thoughts, in fact. If you need a solid answer, pay for it - pay an Attorney, pay a Psychiatrist.