Originally Posted by
mum2five
For those who know what bi-polar is you realize how difficult it can be to work and have a relationship with a bi-polar person. If you are brave enough to attempt this knowingly, then I admire you greatly. A bi-polar person can be very fun loving and sensitive at times, while at other times they are the worst thing in the world to deal with.
An argument with a bi-polar person tends to turn personal, quickly. If you are just having a general argument, it is highly likely to turn highly personal. This can occur even before you realize it has occurred, until it is too late and the damage has been done. One of the most important things to realize is that many bi-polar people are unable to control their temper, emotions, and actions at times.
This is not to say that those who are bi-polar are violent. However, they do tend to be very short tempered, and agitated easily.
While most who are bi-polar do attempt to control their urge's and emotions, they find it difficult to maintain focus , or even care what is going on around them .
Most who are bi-polar do not want to discuss their medication habits, or lack of. This can be a major cause for problems.
Bipolar people have two distinct personalities. At one end of the pole, they are extremely happy. This mood can last for weeks or months. On the other end of the pole, they are extremely depressed or angry. This mood can also last for weeks and months. This behavior disorder has also been known as manic depressive. Unfortunately, because of this behavior disorder, they usually cannot hold down a full time job. Also, for obvious reasons, they have a difficult time with relationships with family and friends. Medication helps somewhat, but it doesn't seem to be enough to make changes in their lives.
Maybe you need to have a long hard think about if you are ready to make the commitment this type of relationship needs?
Seeking expert advice is the only solution.
