Wow! That's something new, OK well talk to him! Be like woah I bearly get to see and talk to you during the day and I can't even go with you to the gym? Well why can't I go with both of you? I want to work out with you and talk to you during the time we are doing the workout together... talk to him about it, if cares for what you have to say, hey he will listen!

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Originally Posted by Ana52408

wow! thats something new, ok well talk to him! be like woah i bearly get to see and talk to you during the day and i can't even go with you to the gym?! well why can't i go with both of you? i want to work out with you and talk to you during the time we are doing the workout together....talk to him about it, if cares for what you have to say, hey he will listen!

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Well I try but what else?

Do you have anything at the library? Story time etc... Look at park activities. It's a good place to meet mom's and for your kids to have some fun and socialize with other chidren their age.

Since you have a lot of spare time get a dog!! Or a bird or an animal you like!! For example with a doggie, you can take it out for walks take it to the park you can entertain each other and it doesn't talk but it will sure mend your heart<3


But you should only get an animal if your sure about it and you know you will have time love and care for it! We don't want another little voiceless animal in a shelter!

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Since you have a lot of spare time get a dog!!! or a bird or an animal you like!!!! for example with a doggie, you can take it out for walks take it to the park you can entertain eachother and it doesnt talk but it will sure mend your heart<3


But you should only get an animal if your sure about it and you know you will have time love and care for it! we dont want another little voiceless animal in a shelter!

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We live with his mom and she has 2 dogs and want let me get one :eek:

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Do you have anything at the library? Story time etc... Look at park activites. It's a good place to meet mom's and for your kids to have some fun and socialize with other chidren their age.

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Yea
Well I want to do thinga as a family but he don't get off till 5pm and then he comes home then lives to go to the gym @ 8pm and don't come home till 10:30pm

Have you told him that you are getting stressed? I have to say a lot of people have given some great ideas and you seemed to have brushed them off. I can understand not wanting to get out there and meet strangers, it can be tough. But you can develop a repor with someone online and then set up a date to meet. Facebook would be a great way to do that. Also, how about a class at night? Are you able to get out at night? Is it the kids or are you unhappy about other things? You sound lonely and I can relate but you're going to have to do something before you find yourself lost and wondering who you are as a person. Trust me. Do you have a high school friend that you can talk to during the day?