MrsPyc2000, I totally agree that you would be upset that she suggest that. You didn't have to put a dissagree on that. I agree with you on that point, I would be upset too. I just missed that part when I was reading your post.

Try giving him omega fatty acid and Little Angels (health food store should have this) before it gets to the point they try to make you put him on meds. Also cut out junk food and sugar.
They made me get my son on meds and said if I wouldn't they would say I was an unfit mom etc...

People always want to say it is the parents not disciplining etc... which you do have to be consistent and not give in
But many kids any more seem to be born with a chemical imbalance or something. My son was raging by 7 years old and nothing could control him. CPS said restrain him. I had to restrain him for hours on end many times just so he couldn't go and try to kill another kid. Around that time a lot of parents were on talk shows saying they were afraid of their two year old. One mom and dad said the 2 year old girl was getting up at night and getting a kitchen knife (they had them hidden) and stabbing her teddy bears and they were afraid she might decide to stab them someday.
When I lived in Texas a 3 year old boy was walking out the door and down the street in the middle of the night.
I don't think ALL this behavior is parents although many parents do give in to kids or leave them to raise themselves, etc...

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Read the book the EXLPOSIVE CHILD author name is Dr. Greene (I think). It help ed me A lot with my son.

Don't ever go back to the doctor who told you there is no problem - he's an idiot.

Go to a psychologist who deals with kids a lot - get a recommendation.

Well... eather he does have something wrong or it's a stage that he is going through. Give him a little while to see if it is just a stage. If he keeps acting like this after 6 months then he does have a problem. He could just have a really bad anger problem that could be with him the rest of his life or he could be going through a stage. Good luck