Excellent attitude to take on aanthonyy! Your therapist is spot on. She stated it much better than I did. My biggest concern was the amount of energy you were expending trying to rationalize the dialogue and situation you had with your ex. There isn't any way to rationalize her actions and your therapist is so absolutely right -- she isn't worth your thoughts or time. Please continue to recognize how destructive a person she truly is to everyone around her, and that there isn't any way you could have changed anything. You shouldn't doubt your actions, your end of the conversations, or how you handled the situation with her. You did the right thing for yourself by ending the relationship. Be thankful you are free from her. You shoud be rejoicing and dancing on tables!