Its only sad and pathetic if you do it because you think you have to.

You don't want it to be a warm body... but someone you really care about and not just horny for.

And always use protection.

I was 21 when I lost my virginity to my wife who was also a virgin and have been happy ever sense

If you wait till the right person comes along then you don't have to worry about diseases

Be patient and when the right one comes along you will know it

I know what itz like, 17 and still a goddamn virgin too. It sucks. All my friends lost theirs.

Well if you are gay you better loose it quick but if your not I don't know cause I am gay

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I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


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I'm 17 too, and there are lots of people I know who are still virgins. There is nothing wrong with that. You can be a virgin for as long as you want to =) there is no "perfect age" for losing it. Its whenever you feel you are ready to. I actually find it very attractive when a guy is still a virgin.

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I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.

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Well, I am a 37-year-old guy and am still a virgin. Heck, you still have your college years ahead of you. Yeah, you might not want to linger like me in the virginity factor but for you about to become a young adult, I just can't see how it would be so bad.

Hay I'm a male, 19 an still a virign so I no how you feel, the extent of my sexually experience is this- kissed a girl when I was six, that's all! I don't think there is a certain age too loose your virginity, all my friends and I mean all of them have lost it so I feel really left out when ever I got out with them because that's all they talk about, it really gets me down, but worst of all everyone of them knows that I'm still a virgin and they keep saying 'come on mate someone special will come around soon'- first heard that afew years ago, I know its hard an really uncomfortable if not embarrassed to still be a virgin in this day an age in modern youth culture but its not pathetic, best advice around I guess is get out there as much as you can and be yourself :D

Well, you don't want peer pressure to dictate anything you do. You will be the one who suffers for it.

Its your life, do it in your own time, at your own conditions. Only a fool lets their "friends" dictate their life. Hell most of them aren't doing half of what they claim to be doing.

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hay im a male, 19 an still a virign so i no how u feel, the extent of my sexually experience is this- kissed a girl wen i was six, thats all!, i dont think there is a certain age too loose your virginity, all my friends and i mean all of them have lost it so i feel really left out when ever i got out with them because thats all they talk about, it really gets me down, but worst of all everyone of them knows that im still a virgin and they keep saying 'come on mate someone special will come around soon'- first heard that afew years ago, i know its hard an really uncomfortable if not embarassed to still be a virgin in this day an age in modern youth culture but its not pathetic, best advice around i guess is get out there as much as you can and be yourself :D

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Hey Mogoverthemoon, I have just a little more physical contact with the opposite sex and I am 37! I know how alienating it can feel. Yes, the never ending talk among guys about who did whom can really be a downer. I try not to feel bad about being a virgin in this day and age but hope that a woman can display an open mind about some of us, not-so-run of the mill folks breaking society's conventional trends.

Plus, being disease free and having no kids will hopefully work as a plus:)

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I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


Hope you can help me out. Thanks.

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Mate get an escort you can make it with a pornstar for 100- 200 pounds its well worth it trust me I did and I was 16 at the time I'm 19 now and I don't regret it at all

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mate get an escort you can amke it with a pornstar for 100- 200 pounds its well worth it trust me i did and i was 16 at the time im 19 now and i dont regret it at all

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I isn't trying to sound deep, sensitive and all of that but to be honest like all of my mates say 'the first time is special' so telling someone who's a virgin and asking complete strangers questions about his sex life to just got out and get a hooker is a pritty crap answer mate, not the best advise by a long shot, OK you did it and it worked out for you but its still a crap bit of advise to give there me thinks:(

i think being a virgin is a wonderful thing and nothing to be ashamed of. the longer your a virgin the more respect i would have for you and others would. wait until its absolutely right and saving it for your wedding day would be amazing :D

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I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?


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Yeah gurlz are problems \

I am 18 and I am still a virgin. Virginity is nothing to be ashamed of. I have been told to wait until you are married and have sex. It is safer that way.

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Look is not even pathetic or sad to be virgin at that age is normal a good age is went u are ready if u are still not ready is OK my cousin lost his virginity at the age of 20 so don't worry :p

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Hey,
I lost my virginity when i was about 15... and i regret it... i really think you shouldnt be pressured into it by all of your "buddies", they might say they've done it but they are probably all in the same position as you are... Do it with someone you love or like... but dont let it get to you. (being a girl) i think that you MUST make sure the girl you are planning with WANTS to do it... i didnt and the sex felt good... but very awkward, ive made many mistakes in my life (such as being a call girl for a day) and (having sex with guys who pressured me) just go with the flo and let what happens happen.
:P
Rachel

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LoL what stupid friends do you have? Being pressured into sex is the most stupid thing I've ever heard of. Whenever I'm with a girl and I ask her if she would like to do it and she's says no, I just accept and treat her to some nice foreplay. I'm 17, and I don't give a crap about sex. If the oppurtunity comes then ill do it, otherwise it's of great importance.

Never be pressured - learn to say no.
Never rush in - sex is overrated. I say this because when you're skilled enough to have about 45 minutes of continuous foreplay which includes oral sex, then intercourse goes out the window.

Ok... I lost mine about a year ago I was 16 I couldn't have gave it a better girl... most people I fine give there's to someone they regeart and never really loved and were pressured into it... im not with the girl any more and I have has now 6 different sex partners... im not proud of it at all... if it was up to me I would have kept it with her... theres nothing wrong with being a virgin... ya your friends may give you about it like I do... but they do it cause they just wish they were still one... so just be smart and give it the girl that you love

Girls have tried to get me to have sex with them before. They were pretty, but I barely knew them, and they weren't my type. I want my first time to be with a girl who I love. By the way, I'm 19 and in college. My peers and girls can put pressure on me, but they can never control me. If you are waiting for the girl you like and your peers make fun of you, they don't know the first thing about girls. They are companions, not prizes.

P.S. I bet more of your friends are virgins than you think:)

I'm 17 and a virgin too, and I am so proud. Have some self respect for your body. Sex is a great thing when it is with the right person. Some guys talk a big game and say they did all that stuff, but it is a bunch of lives. Just think about how special it will be when you do it with someone you love. You and me just have found our soul mates yet, but one day we will and the reward will be that much sweeter! Trust me. A lot of my friend lost there and they REGRET IT! They cry all the time because they gave there most precious thing to a guy thwey thought they loved. Please wait, there is no shame and be a virgin with pride because unlike other you have some self respect for your body, and you lovers!

Hello my name is Samira I am 16. Several month ago I torn my hygen on my own and we are very strict muslem family and soon I am gettnig marry what should I do