View Profile: ashybaby87

Basic Information

• Age 39

About ashybaby87

• Location New Orleans, LA
• Experience I'm a single mom to be. I'm pregnant with my 1st daughter... due Feb 4, 2008. Well at the moment i only work 15 hours a week (part time) at an after school care. My money goes towards my bills (including doc appointments).I really could use the basic baby items. I have a bassinet from when my sister was a baby. ANYTHING for baby girls or unisex would be great! Anything from needs to "just because"! I'd really love Peter Rabbit items since they're hard to come by but getting the things i need for my daughter are more important than something i like.
  
  I made a baby registry on www.amazon.com just look up my name (Ashley Paroli). It includes a lot of stuff that i would like & some things that i do need, but mostly go there for my "wish list" type of thing.
  
  The things i NEED are:
  
  * Newborn & 0-3 months size baby girl clothes (mainly winter style since she\'s born in February)
  * bassinet size sheets
  * Newborn & 0-3 months shoes, socks, & hats
  * Newborn size diapers & wipes
  * Newborn pacifiers
  * Newborn toys (if those exist)
  * bottles that moms that breastfeed would use (along with the bags)
  * ANYTHING for a newborn baby girl or unisex*
  
  The things i would ENJOY having are:
  
  * Peter Rabbit Themed baby items
  * Fisher Price Rainforest Themed items
  * "its a girl" accessories (stickers, invitations, paper, etc.) i like to do crafts with them
  * ANYTHING unique or different that you cant find every day
  * ANYTHING personalized saying "Sophia" or "Sophia Nicole"
  
  Another thing is I'm trying to get out of debt. I'm between $4,000-$5,000 in debt which i have no way of making payments on which is why anything helps. The father decided to leave & not help with any of the debt which is half his. I have no proof half is his since the cards & information is in my name so there's no legal way i can get the money out of him which leave me in the hole that i am in. Took me 2 months to save up the $490 delivery deposit that's due this month. I'm tryin to put an effort of payments of $75 a month towards 1 card that i owe but all that's doing is keeping them from sending me into a collection agency & it won't cut down my bill any & i'm struggling to even afford that extra cost. Every day or close to every day i get a notice in the mail how i'm going into a collection agency. I got another notice in the mail yesterday stating i have 21 days to make a payment to my account or i'll be put in collections. From collections i'm hearing that i can go to jail if i don't make payments. Which has me really worried. I don't know how true that is but it's a new law that's been talked about. I do live with my parents but they are not financial able to help me either. I feel almost ashamed & embarassed to have to ask for any help like this over the internet but i don't know what else to do in such little time. I appreciate any amount i get & all the help i get & i hope to 1 day be able to pass on some help to others who will need it. I have been having trouble sleeping lately being stressed out & worried about what i'm going to do. I have tried to work full time to try to get myself out of this myself but i physically can't do it being 23 weeks pregnant. It's just so much going on that i don't think i can even think straight. I have a lot on my mind & a lot to try & figure out what to do with my life & how i'm going to do it. Thanks for taking the time to read all this & helping. If you are able to make a donation please either email me directly if you plan on sending it through mail or make a donation into my paypal account. I would PREFER paypal which anyone with a bank account or credit card can use & it's safer for both ends. My email is [email protected]
  
  Thanks to anyone who's able to help!!
  
  -Ashley