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  • Mar 14, 2014, 10:00 PM
    sidra3589
    Can someone put bandish between two people who love each other? How can it be removed
    Is it possible for someone to put bandish in between two people that love each other and want to get married? What effect will bandish have on their relation? How can it be removed?
  • Mar 15, 2014, 06:08 AM
    ma0641
    The only Bandish I ever heard of involves music.
  • Mar 15, 2014, 08:44 AM
    Wondergirl
    My Indian friend tells me "bandish" is the Hindi word that also means "bind together."

    Has someone somehow bound you together with someone you don't want to be bound together with?
  • Mar 15, 2014, 10:11 AM
    talaniman
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    Originally Posted by sidra3589 View Post
    Is it possible for someone to put bandish in between two people that love each other and want to get married?

    Its always possible for parents and relatives to know what's best and often its expected to be so in many cultures.

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    What effect will bandish have on their relation?
    It makes the business and desires of the effected couple life miserable as the conflicts between family wishes and the wishes of the couple at direct odds with each other.

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    How can it be removed?
    By both partners standing strong for what they want, not what others want. That often mean going against family and relatives and the whole darn neighborhood, and society. It's a HUGE difficult challenge for any couple.

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