I love my husband I really do but there are things in our marriage that are killing me. My husband is on SSI and unable to work due to having two different cancers and diabetis. I work an 8 hour day in an office. When I get home I am expected to ALWAYS make dinner. Due to this I expect my husband to do the dishes and one household chore a day. I figure since 80% of my income goes to keeping our household expenses paid that he can help with the housework. I leave my house at 6am and get home around 5p. I do dinner and straighten a few things and by 6p I really would like to stop having to do things for the night. My bedtime is 9 so I want some downtime. The problem comes in when I ask my husband to do something other than dishes. All I hear is why can't I do something around the house and I feel if he gets to sit around all day he can take care of things there. It is getting to the point where we scream at each other EVERY day. I don't know how much more I can take. I love him but I am starting to hate him too.:mad: