Ask Me Help Desk - How to convince her parents

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Originally Posted by raam91

HI frnds tis is raam......
i love a girl since last 4 yrs....she is my school frnd and same age....my parents and her parents are family frnds fom our childhood......now am working and she is studying...she also in love wit me...she also like me very much but she got very afraid to tell our love with her parents...on my family side they all gave green signal and all know and talked wit her.....but now and all she getting afraid ...i said dnt worry aft u finish studies v wil cme and talk wit ur parents.....but now and all she feel lot and not to talk wit me....i am also upset for this problem.....plz help me.....how to convince her parents and how i make her feel free..........

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If I understand this - you are in love with her; she is in love with you; your parents know and approve; her parents do not know; you intend to talk to her parents after she finishes her studies; now she will not talk to you.

I don't know that you will ever be able to make her feel "free." Do you mean free to marry you? If so, you need to talk to her parents. If she feels she must do what they advise and they do not approve of the marriage she has two choices: Marry you and probably "lose" her parents OR don't marry you and marry the person her parents pick.

It's really that simple.