I am a bondsman and I met a woman through work that wants me to be her booty call. I don't want to cheat on my wife but I don't want to hurt the girls feelings. What should I do

Don't worry about hurting her feelings,be true to your wife.

I know all the men out there are saying ***!! Until now I was an ol whore but now I think my wife deseves more than that

I'm a man been married for 36 years ,still true to my wife.
I have had chances to stray ,but when I got married I made a deal ,and as far as I know my wife has stuck to the deal also.

Thanks dg I will use your advice

Why don't you want to hurt her feelings ? Tell her this is business, and if she continues you will just pull her bond.
She wants to get something on you, and have it to hold over you

You're going to have to tell her simply that you are not interested.

I don't think that being subtle with a woman who wants you to be a booty call, will be enough.

You may want to consider your reputation as well. A woman scorned as they say, could easily call your employer, or make a few phone calls to your wife.

I also advise you to tell your wife.

Duh, I think you already know the answer. If your are that gullible that you want to have sex with this women just so you do not hurt her feelings your pretty gullible.

If - you do not want to cheat on your wife then don't.

If - you think your so weak that you will fall into temptation then stop working with this person and do not have any contact with this person.

It sounds to me though your trying to put all the blame on this girl but it sounds like the feelings are mutual. Your playing a dangerous game.

An old whore afraid of hurting another whores feelings?! Will wonders ever cease?

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An old whore afraid of hurting another whores feelings???!!!? Will wonders ever cease?

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Don't do it. Tell her to buzz off.:cool:

I have a strange feeling about this question. My gut is telling me that this may be an ego question, not sure.

Remember the line "forsaking all others", in your marriage vows? It means keep it in your pants.

Who cares if you hurt her feelings, she's going after a married man, she doesn't deserve to be coddled.

Tell her to ask your wife if it's OK :rolleyes:

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Tell her to ask your wife if it's ok :rolleyes:

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I have a feeling the wife might object:eek:

Yes, no matter what do not cheat on your wife. I would stay clear of this woman... Someone else can work with her. Also, if you are weak, you should confess your feelings to your wife and pray about the situation. Everyone is tempted from time to time, but know that you have what it takes to resist any temptation. If you doubt yourself, keep praying about it and ask God for the strength to do what is right. My pastor always tells us that men must make a covenant with their eyes. This means that you should only have eyes for your wife. Faith without works is dead, so you have to follow through by making it abundantly clear to this woman that you are not interested. Don't worry about hurting her feelings... She is way out of line. She is disrespecting your marriage.

You're worried about hurting her feelings, think about your wife and tell this lady to get lost. I'm sure she'll survive your telling her No!

Tell her to get lost.

Tell her your're being transferred to Iceland.

Tell her you have a wife and you're not going to screw things up by having a fling with her.

You actually don't need to tell her anything , just do the obvious and ignore her :rolleyes:

Worry about your wife's feelings. Forget this girls feelings.

Your wife's feelings should be top priority.

Hmmm... what's more important... not wanting to hurt a "girl's feelings" that you don't even know OR not straying from the vows you took... if you can't answer that question, that's a problem.

Personally, I would have no problem with this situation. And once the infatuation is at it's pinnacle, I would seek written permission from my Lady to betray and demean her and she would say fine, go ahead, just come back home later and clean up.

She would also hand me my pre authorized application for an immediate autopsy with her approval for a pre death autopsy and instructions to go there first and get the matter taken care of.

I understand your dilemma, I have been there also, but regardless of whether your wife gets hurt, she will see the betrayal in you because you know what you have done. Women know!

Put this down as one of the questions that if you have to ask your wife for permission, you already know it is wrong.

I think the OP is a troll - I can't picture anyone asking this question.

OR - I say he should have sex with this person - then when he's preparing for his new career, his career as a bondsman being over, he can think about it more clearly. Same as a Cop - a no touch policy or kiss your fanny goodbye.

Dear Happy Love - How desperate are you?

I think she may be a troll.
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