Ah! That explains it. I was so picturing a man with his hair stuck up on his head.

NeedKarma- I think you hit the nail on the head! I'm finished here!. Cya

I think we've said all there needs to be said to this person. No matter how we answer, if we ever will again, he will always find excuses and/or examples and ask us to explain these. So, I also will stop here and let him live with the bed he has prepared for himself.

Wishing you all a Merry Christmas, happy and peaceful hours with your friends and family, and I intend to do the same.
Love, Chery

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Originally Posted by Chery

I think we've said all there needs to be said to this person. No matter how we answer, if we ever will again, he will always find excuses and/or examples and ask us to explain these. So, I also will stop here and let him live with the bed he has prepared for himself.

Wishing you all a Merry Christmas, happy and peaceful hours with your friends and family, and I intend to do the same.
Love, Chery

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I also agree and finish here, since I have already posted everything
(assuming that they are related to the subject, even fuzzy logic! and
I never intended to be a troll!- You could simply skip this thread if
You felt I am wasting your time or disturbing you)

The second reason is that I am now being concerned with a bigger
Problem than myself : I found that my sister's friend of 4 years has
Left her and she is very depressed, and is using drugs to decrease stress.

He had promised marriage from the start, and my sister devoted her full
Time, money, attention (even accompanying him by HER car to the university
, buying expensive gifts, isolating from our traditional family for remaining
As friend with him, and paying almost all the bills... )

We started to talk about it today and I almost forgot my problem, trying
To give her hope for a shining future and trust in God...

Good luck and Merry Christmas

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Originally Posted by alia2

I also agree and finish here, since I have already posted everything
(assuming that they are related to the subject, even fuzzy logic!, and
I never intended to be a troll!- You could simply skip this thread if
you felt I am wasting your time or disturbing you)

The second reason is that I am now being concerned with a bigger
problem than myself : I found that my sister's friend of 4 years has
left her and she is very depressed, and is using drugs to decrease stress.

He had promised marriage from the start, and my sister devoted her full
time, money, attention (even accompanying him by HER car to the university
, buying expensive gifts, isolating from our traditional family for remaining
as friend with him, and paying almost all the bills...)

We started to talk about it today and I almost forgot my problem, trying
to give her hope for a shining future and trust in God ...

Good luck and Merry Christmas

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Dear, life is not always what we wish it would be, and we make many sacrifices, your sister and I are almost in the same boat - as I too had isolated myself from family and friends due to my b/f - but will change that today - , and I hope you give her all the support you can - she's family and derserves your protection and love. Please pass on my best wishes to her.