Yes the news is good and I love it when a plan comes together. Don't be a stranger though, Jen keep us posted.

Sorry Jenni, I guess I just jumped the gun. I have been married three times and I have a tendency to do that sometimes. I let my mouth overload my brain. Again, sorry and I hope it all works out for you. Mike

Awesome!! I am so happy for you Jenni!

I am in the same situation only it's my wife and her best friend who lives next door. I work full time and we have x3 kids together. When I get in from work she's straight out the door, on a weekend she is either round her friends or her fiend is round our's. I have tried to talk to her about it but she play's the guilt card on me saying that she will stop seeing her and will just sit in the house all the time.
I can't think of the last time we did anything on our own and to be honest since our intimate relationship is dead in the water. I too am in a no win situation and am starting to feel the same as you. My wife's friend is also married and it appears that our relationships have merged somewhere along the line as I can always tell when they are arguing as we always seem to be at the same time... verry strange.
I know exactly where you are coming from in relation to the third wheel but like you am unable to find a solution except to say that if my own situation continues like this it will most definitely end our marriage as I feel we are becoming flat mates as apposed to husband and wife.