How about an update? This was inspiring to read, a wife who cares enough about her relationship to keep it. Dare we say that this is love? Some of the broken-hearted young men need to read this and see what a woman in love is willing to do. Totally inspiring.

Hi there Thank you George! Things are going much better,we are finally learning to talk about things and be there for one another when the other one is having a bad day instead of just walking off and not saying anything,we are trying to start making time for one another I finally have a couple people that will watch the kids.. and I think finally that my husband and the 2 older kids realize how over whelmed I was with doing things on my own(house cleaning,cooking,and watching our 3 yr old)so we sat down and had a family meeting to express our feelings and to understand what we need to change and well since then they are helping me out around the house.. I know there is still a long road ahead but I am willing to go any lengths to keep this marriage together,I know for a man it is harder to express himself,but my husband is finally coming around and I know that my thing was is that I was patient enough and I didn't realize that all the fault finding and arguing almost ruined my marriage until that night and in all honesty I hope I don't have to go through that again,you know I thought I new what true love meant,but I didn't until I almost lost it.but anyway I am finally getting out more and finding time for myslef and I am meeting more friends (which is a plus considering I didn't have any here lol)I am also looking to get me a job,it is time I stepped up to the plate a relize my husband can't do it all either,and I don't need to depend on him for everything,but all in all things are going good and I pray it gets better in time.. we just have to keep up what we are doing and learn from it... I am so glad that I posted my question on here becaouse without help from you guys I think I would have done everything wrong and you all guided me in the right direction and with that I want to tell you that I am forever grateful.I hope you have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!! And like I said before anymore suggestions I would love to hear them.. Michelle

Bottle and market this, and become very wealthy indeed. Awesome, Michelle. Proud of your old man, too.

You guys should listen to what each other have to say and think before you reply instead of replying in a way that will cause you two to fight
And for the sex try wear sexy stuf that he likes "From a guy's point of view".

I am so happy for you! Hang in there.