The other woman owes her nothing but you owe her everything ! Give her the damn number and stop trying to protect your lover. Why do you care what she wants to know, your A$$ should not have been a liar ! Are you afraid that Your little secrets will be told? If you did not give me the # I would kick your A$$ out for sure, If you gave it to me then I might try to work things out 1 time and 1 time only. Then if the next time you got bored and felt sorry for you selfish A$$ and had another affair, I would rock your world!

He may have told the other woman he loves her, or that he was going to leave his wife for her, or said bad things about his wife to get her into bed... he doesn't want to give the wife the number as he is scared she will tell his wife all he has said...
Could that be it op? Are you still trying to cover your own back? Does your wife's feelings matter in all of this or is it just about you trying to keep your lies a secret?

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Originally Posted by eduble

I had an affair, my wife found out and now she wants to talk to the other woman. She says that she just wants to ask her what happened because I have lied about it. What could her true motive be and what other questions might she ask? She wants me to give her the other womans telephone number?

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Ask yourself if there is a chance for violence and act accordingly. If there is a chance for someone to be physically hurt, don't do it and swallow whatever bricks you have to.