How about your husbands underwear, your first son's, your middle son's, and your last son's underwear on the bathroom floor from getting into the shower. I laugh so lound when picking these up EVERY day. I though about leaving them there to rot, but that would be gross. You girls are funny!

I'm not married so maybe I can't give a good enough answer to this,but...
Been with my partner coming up to 5 years this year.long distance for 1 year, lived together for the last four years.
Personaly I would much rather have the experience of living with someone before I make the huge step of marrying him.
This way I get to see my partner, and I get to pick up on all the little things that add up to the whole package, I'm sure after everything we have been through, nothing would change if we had a ring on our finger. Everyone is different though.