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Originally Posted by talaniman

You are an enabler to your wife's bad drunken behavior and you need to educate YOURSELF to the correct way to deal with it. Google AL-ANON.

Then you wrote,



Get the test, and educate yourself to what drunks are capable of and do what's right whether she gets angry or not.

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I see what your saying, however, Bryan's wife is also very, very good friends of Lori's and Lori wod never stand by and let Bryan cheat on her. My thoughts to the text was Bryan was making light of the situation as if my wife had a one night stand and now she's pregnant and not sure who the father is...

I will take your advice and checked out that groups website.

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Originally Posted by zasky

I see what your saying, however, Bryan's wife is also very, very good friends of Lori's and Lori wod never stand by and let Bryan cheat on her. My thoughts to the text was Bryan was making light of the situation as if my wife had a one night stand and now she's pregnant and not sure who the father is...

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"However...." So now you are giving her excuses.

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Originally Posted by zasky

I will take your advice and checked out that groups website.

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And GO to the meetings. There are probably several different groups within a few miles of you.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

"However...." So now you are giving her excuses.

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Don't mean to come off making excuses, I just don't think Bryan is involved in that manner based on his wife's relationship with Lori. My wife's behavior is very suspicious, especially when she chose to delete those texts but nothing else.

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My wife offered for me to call Lori and asked what the text meant, however, I refused since my wife and Lori have been best friends for 25 yrs. and I knew Lori would not say anything that would get my wife in trouble.

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These are your words.

Talaniman Rule- NEVER believe a drunk, or assume they remember the truth.