Ask Me Help Desk - Husband won't let go of X's

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I think your husband is an inconsiderate boob. He enjoys women but has little respect for you and your marriage, especially since you have spoken to him about this. He is either stupid or doesn't care if he sees no problem with this.
Me, I'd leave him. There is no respect there.

You are so right he doesn't respect me or any other woman. My hope is that with my counseling I will be able to brake the codependency stuff and get the heck out of this mess. The problem with being co-dep. Is that all they have to do is show you some kindness and it makes you think well maybe thing aren't as bad as I think. I use to see things on TV about women staying in bad marriages and I would think no way I would do that but never say never. I do thank you for writng to me it does help to have someone to talk to about this