Please let me clear something up, I do not fight back, I have tried talking like two adults

,JAKE2008but he will not go to If he would go to counseling with me I think there would be a big chance we could work this out.

Thank you
And Joe means well I'm sure , but he's so wrong. I still cook, it took a month to forgive , my husband says he's not hard to please just feed him, f--k him and send him to bed.that did not sit well with me.

I agree

HarjeetS, Hi how are you?Are you married? Anything you would like to talk about?
I would love to chat with you.
Thank you
Kim

You married this man knowing how he is, it is not apparent that you love him, perhaps even married him for the wrong reason.
As I see it you have two choices. Go to counseling and work on this marriage or end it before you two destroy each other.