So was it more of feeling left out because they started the party without you? Or are you upset by seeing your best friend and your husband making out?

I think your heart is broken because you really didn't want to do it in the first place and seeing them kissing put that right in your face.

I have to ask, did they have to do some persuading to get you to agree to the threesome in the first place? Saying it would be all about you? Obviously that wasn't the case.

There is nothing to forgive... learn from it. You are not comfortable sharing your husband and you shouldn't be drinking to the point where you make decisions you are not fully comfortable with. Have a talk with your husband and your friend and make sure they understand that it won't be happening again if you aren't 100% sure it is something you want to be a part of.

This is just about the sorriest grievance I have ever heard.
You still keep using Comment instead of Answer, and now we find out that the 3some happened? And all this rigamarole is over the fact that they didn't wait? At this point I don't even want to know how long you were in the bathroom or where you get the idea that ordering 2 drunks on a bed around is going to have any effect, or should matter when you all SOBER UP.

Please, do waste your life not getting over it. Wreck your marriage while you are at it. See if you can make yourself and everyone around you miserable.

If your willing to share your spouse with someone else then you have nothing to complain about --period!! You know what is the saddest part about this whole post, is that your not opposed to having another woman make love to your husband, it was that they paid more attention to each other then they did YOU!! You wanted this to be all about pleasing YOU! You sharing your husband with another woman for your own pleasure backed fired!!