Redhead, that is good. Some of your advice I think is really a good idea.

I commented to this one earlier. Thank you.

Actually I just saw a lawyer and I good really good info from him. I may not have to go to a shelter after all and as a matter of fact, I found out that because of the things that my husband had done in the past, he could owe me more. Thanks.

I don't know why you are so angry and insulting to me. First off, I am not a man, and secondly, I am very experienced, with a formal education, in many areas of mental health.

What typically posters such as yourself do, is turn on the one giving or offering advice in good faith, when you don't like what they have to say.

That does not automatically mean you are entitled to be so disrespectful, rude and angry. To say I am not very good at what I do is disrespectful and unnecessary. I have dealt with literally thousands of victims of all stripes, in all capacities. Try to keep your judgments to yourself, and stick with either accepting or rejecting responses, but do not attack those of us helping you.

You continue to misuse the rating system. Please read the rules of the forum. To 'disagree' to an opinion, is not allowed. Nor is the 'agree' 'disagree' there for you to post a reply. Post your reply to what is stated, but please do so in a civil and respectful manner.

People here answering questions are volunteers. Many of us give our time generously, for free, to assist people having difficulty. Be nice.

Remember you can only disagree to a fact, not an opinion. The same rules apply for everyone.

Jake, take your anger issues elsewhere. Thank you.

I will take a look at the rules of the forum again.

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Meanwhile, please do what you said you would do earlier, jake. Please just leave me alone.

Thank you so much.