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Originally Posted by sandybk

After your hb died, what made you decide to throw so much out? I guess if it had been a nasty divorce, well I get it ;-O

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Everything reminded me - I grieved hard for one year, left the house to work and shop, nothing else, didn't meet friends/family anyone else.

He was sick for a long time and we discussed how he wanted me, how I needed to go on.

At that stage of grief I felt getting rid of reminders would make it easier not to remember - not necessarily to forget.

Now I am sorry I did. I treasure the few things I saved.

If I learned one thing it's to do NOTHING for a year - but I thought I was all right. I wasn't.