But you guys are onto something:I have never had access to either the bank account or the credit card and have to ask him for money.Guess he is more about power than I had realized.

Start googling!! There is absolutely no way you can convince me that you or one of your friends cannot come up with a way to get money for a lawyer. Go through his wallet when he's sleep or get him so drunk he passes out and take his money. Come on don't play that helpless female with me. I know better.

He never has much in his pockets.Believe me,I have tried.I have raised some money so I have partially paid the paralegal and have the money orders for the work permit and fingerprints and the health certificate but that is now expired so it has to be renewed and that is another 200 bucks.. I had a little job for a while and so was able to save some.

I finally was able to file.I hope he will 'perform' good on the time of the interview.I hope I will get my papers soon.The paralegal said that it should not take long.