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I want my friendship back.

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Your just a friend with benefits to him, and a liar, and a cheater. Your "friend" will be back for sex.

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Originally Posted by Diane2009 https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_i...s/viewpost.gif
And besides, that's not a valid reason to stop talking to a friend because I'm married.

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Your right, cheating on your husband is though. That's as valid as a reason can get.

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Do you think I can't just be friends with my guy friend? Just friends and no sex involve.

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No, to late for that, but your husband could give you some really good advice as to what to do about it. Ask him.

Are you getting the drift yet?

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Originally Posted by Diane2009

When I say from the beginning I mean I was so immature around 2001 when he started to flirt a lot with me and vice a versa. Now that I'm older and over the years my feelings have grown stronger for him. It seems like he is playing hard to get now but I know he still has feelings for me but he has been hurt before. Its not my choice that I like talking about other guys but it's the only way I can try to break the ice with him. If I talk about feelings he still will not say much about that area of interest either.
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Its not my choice that I like talking about other guys but it's the only way I can try to break the ice with him.

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I beg your pardon? It's not your choice? Of course it's your choice!

For heaven's sake take some responsibility for your thoughts and actions in relation to this situation. This guy is keeping away from you for a reason. Give some serious thought to what you've done to create this.

And, you don't know that he has feelings for you - you're only guessing or hoping that he has.