If a man isn't paying attention, he needs to sleep on the couch, or you remove yourself from the situation, long enough for him to miss you, until he is ready to talk and listen. Its really not unusual to look around when your being ignored.

Ya women look like they can do no wrong in your mind, but they can and do, especially on the emotional aspect they have the power to manipulate and hurt, just as much, if not more than a man.

So you expected this man to give and give and give emotionally because you told him to?

Come on, you were more than likely pulling away at this point and he only felt like you were giving out to him, THAT kind of behaviour doesn't make anyone more loving.

Did you become demonstrative and loving at this point? I doubt it.

Stop kidding yourself and get some counseling.