I guess you get the point that you are a very selfish person and all you think about is yourself! You got very good advice from everybody and you will always here the truth from them. You are a pig. You need to get out of the marriage and let your family recover from all the damage you have caused.

I think you should be a man and tell your wife that you want this other woman. Isn't it only fair to your wife? Besides, why would you want to stay with someone who repulses you anyway. Money? That's low. Real low. I feel sorry for you because you're going to end up leaving your wife, and then sometime down the road, the mistress with leave you. And she will, because you'll end up cheating on her too.

Stay with your wife because fireworks don't last long and soon after they will surely die out. Sometimes it best to stay on the safe side even though theother side offers momentary excitement

Try to make them both work out, life is short and supporting your wife is important, that is what men should do. However, you love another woman, and that need is important too. I don't believe in any moder hogwash that a man cannot be with two women, his wife and his lover, or lovers makes perfectly good sense.

Well it seems to me that you have to go where your heart leads you to I don't agree with the cheating of your wife but I understand that time can bring relationships to an end and only time will tell if you made the right decission or not if you do leave your wife or your mistress ,
I think what I`m trying to say is go with the flow and do what feels right