This husband is acting like super-jerk. I'd have a serious talk with him about respect, honesty, care for one another and how to not play manipulative games in marriage. He is acting like one of the children. In fact, the 3-year-old is showing more honesty.

Of because you should say hi to each other as you meet at the end of the day. Sometimes send him just some you are special love cards followed by any love gift or something that he will like. Always try to keep the love spark in between both of you.