Wow! It is interesting to hear this from experience. I know it is quite complicated to understand this. Well at least for me, it is so complicated because I normally think straight and say things straight. But I am learning things from experience now. Manchis said “Your husband is frustrated and as a man he should be providing and it hurts and instead of talking to you about how he feel he will resort to something like the blame game.” This makes lots of sense to me. But the question is those who likes to play the blaming game, how far do they take the game? Because my husband is taking it too far to the point he wants to end it. I couldn't even have a decent conversation with him because as soon as he started by mentioning how I cheated…. I have no patient of listening to what he is saying. I rather screamed and say, 'I NEVER CHEATED!”, and the more I said that the more he gets mad, saying, “YOU SHOULD At least BE HONEST ABOUT IT.” …..