I don't agree with this either. I think it should be fine for you to have male friends at work and outside of work. You know your boundaries and so does he (at least it seems so by his actions) so there is no reason that you two need to be jealous/nervous about each other.Quote:
Originally Posted by busymom
It seems that there are underlying trust issues which are making it difficult. I'd have to say that if he expects you to drop ties with men you would be friendly with at work then he should do you the same courtesy - the double standard isn't fair. That doesn't mean I agree, but your right to feel jilted.
It almost sounds like you each want just a little bit too much control over each other's personal life... relax!