I was with someone who also lied deliberatley. My ex boyfriend did not know how to tell the truth , all he did was lie. And about getting a job etc. needless to say I dealt with it for almost two years. And finally said I need someone better. I left him for good. Now I'm with someone who treats me like gold, he takes care of my ever need. And makes sure I take my medicine talk to my folks etc. my ex never let me talk to my family. And for a while I lost touch with my family. But now that were on speaking terms I'm a much happier person. But I must admit don't trust them completely.

I don't have a problem with trust as such I just have a problem trusting him and now because of him I imagine I will have no trust or doubt most men I meet in the future!!

I feel like my head is a big mess, he knows how to play with me and is I'm trying my hardest to not let it happen but I'm not invincible so some of it is getting through...

Last night I missed him so much, for no reason at all, I very badly wanted to call him and tell him to come back... I didn't but I was close to for no reason at all other than I miss him and still love him, in some ways. Im glad I didn't but I was very close to it.

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Id ont have a problem with trust as such i just have a problem trusting him and now because of him i imagine i will have no trust or doubt most men i meet in the future!!!

I feel like my head is a big mess, he knows how to play with me and is im trying my hardest to not let it happen but im not invincable so some of it is getting through........

Last night i missed him so much, for no reason at all, i very badly wanted to call him and tell him to come back........i didnt but i was close to for no reason at all other than i miss him and still love him, in some ways. Im glad i didnt but i was very close to it.

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Stay strong Jodi... Please. It's a horrible time for you. Maybe if you picture his face and the look of "I told He would be nice for a few you so" if you go back that will be a deterrent... Kit

Hi everyone, I quick update.

Life is pretty good, had a holiday with friends, got asked out so many times that my confidence is at a all time high, feeling pretty good with myself for the first time in a long time.

As for my ex husband to be, he is still up to no good, I have had various phone calls asking/telling me about him, I thought the lies to me were bad!! How wrong I was, he has told so many other people lies, awful lies, that it turns out I was one of 5 women he had!! Soooooooo glad I am out of it and he doesn't bother me anymore :)

I was going to say it gets better, but you seem to know that already. So just keep enjoying it, and be grateful that he is out of your life.

I'm glad to hear you are doing so well.
Keep it up!

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I'm glad to hear you are doing so well.
Keep it up!

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Jodi... I was thinking of you yesterday... I'm so happy for you! Good, good, good. You Did It!! :D


Just for you... :cool:

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Hi everyone, i quick update.

Life is pretty good, had a holiday with friends, got asked out so many times that my confidence is at a all time high, feeling pretty good with myself for the first time in a long time.

As for my ex husband to be, he is still up to no good, i have had various phone calls asking/telling me about him, i thought the lies to me were bad!!!! How wrong i was, he has told so many other people lies, awful lies, that it turns out i was one of 5 women he had!!! Soooooooo glad i am out of it and he doesnt bother me anymore :)

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Holy Gross! 5 women? That's just unbelieveable! I'm so glad you're out of there and on you're way to being a single, happier woman. Best of luck to you Jody. This whole situation just sucked!

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Holy Gross! 5 women?! That's just unbelieveable! I'm so glad you're out of there and on you're way to being a single, happier woman. Best of luck to you Jody. This whole situation just sucked!

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Somebody get a rope!:eek:

The extent of the lies is beyond what I could ever believe and am finding it hard to believe still... 5 women is the start of it!

I am glad to be out of it but still find myslef in it in a weird sort of way but from a distance! If that makes sense

I pity him and how low he has gone

Well just be glad you are no longer a pawn in his game.

Gosh Jodi... I feel like I've known you for years. We really have had a lot to get through, haven't we?
I knew you could do it. I'm so glad you see him for what he is.

I hope you start building yourself confidence again... Kit